Wednesday, September 2, 2015

11 reasons to leave your bulling stress behind at your work place, high school,collage

   
  
   I was at the beach few days ago with my friends. Oh! That drawny, sandy white beach and that bluish water!!

 The ice white wave that hit the shore, try to wipe us and carry us with it and the strong wind that try to go through our body!

 All of us were sitting and watching the sunset and one of our friend never stopped complaining about her work place throughout the day. She didn't seem enjoy the scenery, I doubt that she saw it even. She was missing some great and a fabulous hours of her life.

 That was the time, got idea for this blog post!

 First let's talk about you.

 What are you doing right now? What are you thinking about while ago? Were you happy?
How about the plan for tomorrow?

 Are you too a person who fed of your work or the place you have to spend a lot of time, thanks to your surrenders?

 Then keep continue reading!

 You may be someone who wishing you had more number on your side. People to talk, people who really accept you,help you other than officially, people to be comfortable with!

 The new place you just arrived or still can be known as new, though it have been few months, may be years, full of weird people with way more different from you (as you feel)!

 Is that the kind of place where you are now or the place you have spend more time in each day?

 Everybody around you is unkind, trying to put you down. You seem neglected, cut off by them though you are really a part of it.

 A day full of stress ,discomfort, loneliness make you fed and frustrated every day.

 Every morning reminds you the hell waiting there for you,with no friends, kindness ,help, comfortable talk, doubt, but only the cold blooded creatures! (That is from her words that day.)

 This is your life and you need to make you feel good and be more confident about you. Right?

 Don't worry! Salvage is here..

 Life is a series of episodes, that differ from one to another! Thrust me completely different.

 New people, new environment are natural things comes in everyone's way along the series.

  But accepting those changes are not easy for anyone!
Here are reasons, you need to get rid of the way you think about your surround.


1.Less productivity.

 Negativity is the best key of less productivity. When any mind rock with, hate, annoy, discomfort and doubt it won't contribute it's best to the task you are up to.

 You can't blame it!

 It has lot of to think about like 'Am I doing it wrong? 'is he laughing at me?' 'What may be the conspiracy going out there?'.

 You may find you take lot of time to finish a piece of work, which don't not need such time by yourself. You catch up you thinking about the hell surrounding and about a day it get better.

 You being less productive or better to say weak as you don't use to be, because you get distracted with your negativity.

So that's why you have to leave those thoughts behind.

2.Good quality holder

 They are rude; unkind and errrr..

 You keep comparing with the with the way you treat a human and the way they do.

That's good!

 You have something to compare mean, you have better qualities than them. You can figure out that a human a colleague should be treated in a better way than this.

 Your parents have raised you, giving regular doses form the bottles of 'good qualities' and 'humanity'!
That's the treasure in your heart no one can buy. You are rich as you own a treasure inside but they are still really poor.

3.Spoil your own life

 You have no right to even spoil your own life.

'Just living is not enough... one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.' -Hans Christian Andersen-

 You deserve happiness, fun, joy.

 Don't get stuck and worry about the same thing again and again. Worrying take you to nowhere.

 As I've told you before you are only acting in another episode of 'life'. Stop sobbing that, this is your life forever.

 Things will change than you can imagine. No matter how hard to be there, enjoy yourself.

 Your work, your words(even the few)anything you do there. Happy for it. Enjoy what you do.

 Then you'll forget your frustration

4.See no way out

 For how long you have to be there? You are afraid to think about the answer ha?

 That's why you need to wipe those hell thoughts out!
How much you have suffered with in this short period of time? How much more you have to go through?

 And that's why you need to find a way to look at things in a better angle.

 No one can work with a head ache. That's why you have to find a way to keep it aside.

5.You have a plan

 Your are a person who already have a plan for your life. A big one. That's why you start growing yourself bigger, as to get fit to your plan. Remember?

 Sometimes it may be not that big. Just limited to paying bills or for living or that's what others do or that's what parents need. But you can't say it's not a plan.

 How you going to accomplish your plan without walking though this step you've included in your plan?

'Failing to plan is planning to fail.'
-Alan Lakein-

 Don't let you plan to fail, because it's not that bad. 

 Just let your courage to roar!

 Trust me it's there inside.

 Remember,you are there, in order to get completed your plan. Not to pleased  others or to expecting mommy care from others.

6.You needed it

 No matter how small or big is your plan, you are the one, who needed to do this. Because that's the only way out.

 No one forced you to go there on the first day. It was you, who needed to go there.

And you needed it, because of the great plan lies in front you, the one you have planned, the plan you willing to achieve.

7.You are on your way to achieve it

 You had a plan and you took steps to achieve your the top in your plan. You committed a lot. You waited. You've being lot patience bearing all the hardness there.

 All that hard will worth at the end. Most important thing is that you is you are achieving what you have planed, though there are bit of dark shadows, thing are going well according to what you have planned.

 So a place where help you to achieve you cannot be  a hell unless a heaven.

8.Who care about others

 The cold blooded hearts waiting there to tie your arms till your drawn and all the laughing bags waiting at the hell to laugh at you whenever you get wrong make you think you suck! ha?

 Sometimes it may be the way they neglect you, feel you low with their comments or they try to stay high "your highness position making you the slave. Again you feel 'I suck'

  Words are not arrows unless you see them as arrows. Behaviours are the same. Nothing going to pierce your body unless you let it.(Remember I'm not talking about physical harassments)

 Let it go!

'Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.'
-Bob Marley-

9.Waste of your time

'Nobody can hurt me without my permission.'
-Mahatma Gandhi-

 Every minute you spend to think about, talk about is a waste. Remember the life is too short and you have lot more to discover of your own.

 Be a man who waste your time to find the value of your life, not on a bin of garbage.

'A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.'
-Charles Darwin-
10.Feel sorry for them

 They are popular, rich with knowledge, power, money, socially, or with any other thing. But still poorest from the heart.

 What you must understand in money, knowledge, popularity can be earn with hard work and a great effort.what about good qualities? Can anyone earn them? Collect from somewhere else?

 If you miss it in your childhood, then you lost it for your whole life.

 So be sorry for them as they can't ever achieve what you have. Be happy as you are still in possible range to cover up all they have(At least have a possibility ha?)

 Don't bother about how they treat you, just feel sorry for them as they have no rich heart.

11.You choose it

 If it's a hell but still on exists on the earth, that' you  who have made it a hell. You can give lot of excuse but still you are the one who name it to be a hell.

 If you don't bother about other's action, words, maintain higher humanity with a regular attach to your religion, you will realize, hell is way more worst from what you have around you.

'Too often in life, something happens and we blame other people for us not being happy or satisfied or fulfilled. So the point is, we all have choices, and we make the choice to accept people or situations or to not accept situations.'
-Tom Brady-

 Remember there are lot of people who live in real hells even in this earth. The people who drown in poverty, low sanitary, natural deserters, diseases.

 You are lucky. What you have may be less, but you have much more than what they have.
So be happy.

Don't waste a minute not being happy. If one window closes, run to the next window- or break down a door.
Brooke Shields

 So there is a chance for you to name it in  a different way.




 That's why you should immediately put a full stop to those negative thoughts inside you.

 Wind and the sea wave may be weak. But what about a Tsunami and a tornado! So be that Tsunami. 

 Be that tornado .Be confident. Be courageous. 

 And wipe your negativity away and let your mind absorb positive you used to have.

 You may be alone, while the whole world against you. 

 But 'when you are alone, you are the strongest'

 Because that's where your life come with the sixth sensor to guide you.

 Today's morning must had alarmed you with that awkward reminder. So how about tomorrow?

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Thursday, August 13, 2015

10 Tips and tricks for tommorrow exam


1.Try to find out some clues about the thing       appear on the paper

  This will help you a lot to mange your time on such a rush day.But it is OK if you couldn't find any.
 2.Don't give up

     if it has just few hours for your exam first you must keep in your mind is not to give up your exam.though  you are weak at the subject which you have to face tomorrow, never mind!Just make yourself confident with the thought that you 'll do your best in the exam.

3.Don't waste your time to bother or  to worry

   Don't get confused or worried about the amount you still haven't went through.Just focus on the things you are familiar with and go through them again and again.If you have clues or some hints given by the teacher, what is on the paper though that facts are familiar to you or not spent sometime to go through them.

4.Don't waste your time

   If you don't have short notes,don't make them now,its a waste of time.It's better to go through the notes while highlighting the important facts.

5.Answer.

   Go through your old exercises that you've already done.Take some rough sheets and read the question and look at the answer you've written in your exercise and write the answer on the rough sheet.

6.Make rough sketches

   If you have important diagrams to remember draw them roughly while looking your notes to have a clear image of the diagram for the last time.

7.Late your bed time.

   Take 1-2 hours of time your sleep and do some study.If you are OK to spent your next day bit lack of sleep,  take more time. It says that you have to take a a good sleep when you are facing a test or an exam.But for the people who study in the last minute, like me, this 'll really help.Make sure that you have a sleep of couple of hours.

8.Write the most wanted most forgettable facts.

    Take double page and  roughly write the facts which really important and bit hard to keep in mind.Take it with with you and keep it for the last moment you are ask to remove your things,refer it as much as you can.

9.Memories.

     At the very next moment you receive the fist paper test paper or something else provide for he exam or the test.write the fact your are doubt that you 'll forget in a corner.It works great for equations and formulae.

10.If possible,cheat.

    If you can get some help of someone in the test don't miss it.Make sure that  you getting the answers from a person never give you wrong answers and you not get caught.And if you have a chance help your friends too.

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14 Easy study tips every student must know for better results!


  You are tired and fed of studying?Yes, I heard your deep breath thrown out with frustration!And that's why you read this post!And that's why I share some easy tips for you to have better results in this posts!Yeah you came to the right place!Don't worry your time spending on my blog won't be a waste.
read them and follow them!Better results are guaranteed.


1.Select a time which will work with you most
  
   It may be morning,evening,night or after mid night.'Oh!why morning starts so early?',is that you?Can you watch movies until today become yesterday?Then the best time for you is the night.If you like to do your studies with a new and fresh way morning is the best!Try studying in different times.You'll find what is the best time for you.

  To me it's after mid night!Because that's the time full of silence,calm and peace and alone(whole world dis sleeping and I'm the one who awake to watch the stars;))

2.Balance the subjects

    Make a time table giving more amount of time for the subjects you weak at less time for the subjects you good at. Make sure you study for 45 minutes to 1 hour  at a time and take  a break of 15 minutes.
 Change the subject you study after a session(45min to 1 hour time)

   Make sure to learn by hear-ting subjects and logical subject one after another .eg:- if you had literature in the first  session study maths in the next session
    3. Identify the part which will defiantly be on the test paper
       
        whole syllabus of the subjects is not on the test paper.So refer to some past papers and try to identify come the parts often comes the sections which 'll never come.
      4.Make short notes

         If you have much time to study,refer you text books and notes and everything you seem important sources,and make a one complete note gathering everything together.if not dot go for it.(flash cards  or highlighters are better for you)
        5. Highlight your notes

            Just highlight the important terms and words which will give you the whole idea of the paragraph only by go through the high lighted  words. eg;-A star is a luminous sphere of plasma held together by its own gravity. The nearest star to Earth is the Sun. Other stars, mostly in the Milky Way, are visible from Earth during the night, appearing as a multitude of fixed luminous points due to their immense distance. Historically, the most prominent stars were grouped into constellations and asterisms,

        6.Make flash cards.


           Flash card are good for memorizing equations,formula ,
        definitions and important fact.

        7.Make  lists of  equations and formula

              It 'll make easy to memorize those when all the things are on one paper.Also, you can bring those on exam day to the school to have a final look at the very last moment.
          8.Make study banners

            Get a big paper and write important things  and diagrams you have to keep in mind in bold letters in different pens and colors as much as you can.Make it look attractive and funny by adding some stickers or few jokes at the corners.Draw some random drawings of anything you prefer which you 'll think give it a crazy look.Stick them on your wall or any place your eye get caught with out any attempt.
            9.Enjoy a bit while you study

              Memories what happen in the class room while you are learning the part you study at the moment, what question or doubt come to your mind,what your friend asked at that time or whatever you remember on that moment.It 'll help to memorize that particular part clearly, at the test just after you give a hint on the situation you learned it at the class room.If you looking for more ways to enjoy while study,this 'll help you too.8 tips to make your studies interesting
              10.Reason to study

                       Find a good reason why you should study to make you interest in studying.Believe me,'to get a good pass' won't work .Think about something else.Mine was the teachers.There were many teachers who didn't like me,thanks to my tongue.So all of them want to watch me fail ,because I'd criticize them in their face.So my results was so important to me,because I wanted to show them i'm succeeding year by year!

              11.Write and draw  important words and diagrams,while you study on a rough paper.

              No neat and tidy is required for this.Draw rough flow charts while you study of experiments maths or procedure of something on any subject.Write formulae and equations again and again.Solve the sums you've done in the class again again.This writing 'll help you to get a clear memory of the lesson without any doubt about certain facts when you memorize them on the test.
                12.Study!Study!Study!

                  No mater how you follow the above tips if you don't study. Go through all the ave notes flash cards and bla bla again and again AS MUCH AS you can.Don't wait till the last week.Complete your studies without a rush!
                  13.Go through the sections you've studied already and confident you've completely finished.

                       Make sure you take an over roll view of  sections you are confident as you've finish studying including all the flash cards short notes.Though you confident that you've already finish those after 2- 3 days of time the clearance of the stuff you studied get reduce.On what things you don't have a clear memory will get caught and cured by following this tip.
                    14.Write answers

                    Collect some past papers or model papers or questions and answer as much as you can.Ask for the seniors for past papers and answer  them again and again!

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                      Are you a student of any kind of heck?

                      Are you someone who struggles to manage your studies without any miss?

                      Then this post is for you!

                        So no doubt when it comes to studies no matter how much you like it, it sucks to the max!

                        You know a day got 24 hours which is a lot but there are days you feel like you need more time in a day (at least another 5 more) and those days are the days before the exam!

                         And I’m sure that you must know what the resent for your “more hours day” dream,ha? It’s because you have lot of studies to finish in the last few days, which sometimes you haven’t go through at least once. Is there anyone who had that feeling within the last few days before the exam that, 

                      ‘I’ll be able to cover up all I’ve missed even when few weeks after the exam?'

                       HE-HE! To be honest I was such a good student! ;)
                      I know you too may think when it’s near for an exam, 

                      'it’s alright this time. I’ll catch up everything and do my best for the next!'

                        So this tip are for the ppz who wish to do your studies in your best for the next exam and for the ones who still have enough time to get ready for this exam!

                       1.Don’t wait

                      “Don’t wait for tomorrow because tomorrow comes when today get spent itself”

                         There is no auspicious time to start your studies. Start it now don’t wait for a good time or a right time, because this moment is the best. You may be tired or may be feel bad, But don’t let it make you beat down. Start your studies at least go through couple of pages or solve some problems (at least try) because if you never start it’ll never happen.

                      2. Finish it now

                      Finish all you’ve learn today!

                      What!:O

                           Yeah!Try to go through what you’ve learn today by today itself. It’ll give you make you easy to understand what you have learned clearly than you refer it tomorrow. You don’t have to by heart everything but just go through you notes and the problems you’ve solved.

                      3. Manage your time

                         You may be working and study at the same time or may be doing lot of extra work while you study; therefore you need a good time plan to balance everything.

                      Time table! What nonsense!

                      Never work!

                        That’s true. Most of you make a time table and.. And what? Nothing. It’s just there!

                       Trust me my time tables only come up when I unfold my old notes! haha

                         So that’s why you need to have a imaginary time map in your mind. If you like you can materialize it too. I suggest you to keep a time frame for your studies. It may be 5 hours a day or may be 10 hours or how the hell know it’s 15 hours a day (kidding) ,depending on the amount of studies you still have to finish. 

                        So you just have to concentrate only to accomplish your amount of hours per day.And make an agreement with yourself to cover up the hours you missed yesterday with in today!

                      4. Plan your studies

                         Here I’m talking about the thing you have to do in each day. So make a study plan so you won’t miss or forget anything. Make a list according to the priority, weekly basis or monthly basis.

                         This kind of a plan‘ll help you ,in your time plan too. Because it’ll remind you about the assessments you have to submit and the homework and the exercise you have to finish as well as the parts you should study targeting your exam.


                         I thought to give a pretty printable weekly plan for you, where you can use it with the sticky papers you have, to save your study time. If you are interested to get one, drop me a mail with #weeklyplanscylla,to Scyllablogger@gmail.com

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                      5 proven study techniques for Students

                        

                         Are frustrated with your studies? Bored and fed up with your studies? Looking for easy and more productive ways to hit your goals?

                         Yo! You've come to the right place. Stay for a while and read till the end. I promise you won’t regret!

                         Education is a  most powerful weapon in the world, which cannot be priced with money ,since there is no limitation. But the problem is, still its bit hard. So, I thought to help you guys with some techniques which will help you to do your studies easily and more productively! Here I give you 5 proven techniques in front of my eyes! Try them and find the best way match for you by your own. Because no one is, similar when it comes to studies!


                        Time is short and there’s lot more to do. So read this and start doing it now. I mean right now. And don’t forget to share your own techniques as a help to your kind; students!

                         

                      1. Read loud

                      If you have a dream, you can spend a lifetime studying, planning, and getting ready for it. What you should be doing is getting started.-Drew Houston-


                         If you are someone who like more noise, this‘ll work for you. All you have to do is, Take your notes and read out loud what you study. Keep a volume which make you hear your own voice. Studying with reading will feed your note in two ways to yourself. Even for math you can use this technique. I had a friend who mummer what she does in the problem in each step.
                      E.g.” Add thirty to ten, then you get forty. Divide it by tree……”

                      How it feed your memory?
                      1.By sight
                      2.By reading
                      3.By hearing

                          2.Use visual guidance 

                      Some advice: keep the flame of curiosity and wonderment alive, even when studying for boring exams. 
                      Love art??Can you remember what you see? Try this!

                        Get your notes and redesign your notes with more visual guidance.Flash cards,study banners, Flow charts, diagrams, bubble method and tables even unnecessary stupid drawing of yours can use as your visual guidance. These‘ll help you to summarize and organize your notes, and to get the core of the lesson leaving unnecessary parts.
                      Let’s take an example.

                      What are vitamins?

                      There are two types of vitamins: fat-soluble and water-soluble.
                      Fat-soluble vitamins
                      Fat-soluble vitamins are found mainly in fatty foods and animal products, such as vegetable oils, milk and dairy foods, eggs, liver, oily fish and butter.
                      While your body needs these vitamins every day to work properly, you don't need to eat foods containing them every day.
                      This is because your body stores these vitamins in your liver and fatty tissues for future use. These stores can build up so they are there when you need them. However, if you have much more than you need, fat-soluble vitamins can be harmful.
                      Fat-soluble vitamins are
                      vitamin A
                      vitamin D
                      Vitamin E
                      Vitamin K
                      Water-soluble vitamins
                      Water-soluble vitamins are not stored in the body, so you need to have them more frequently.
                      If you have more than you need, your body gets rid of the extra vitamins when you urinate. As the body does not store water-soluble vitamins, these vitamins are generally not harmful. However, this doesn't mean that all large amounts are necessarily harmless.
                      Water-soluble vitamins are found in a wide range of foods, including fruit, vegetables, potatoes, grains, milk and dairy foods. Unlike fat-soluble vitamins, they can be destroyed by heat or being exposed to the air. They can also be lost in water used for cooking.
                      This means that by cooking foods, especially boiling them, we lose some of these vitamins. The best way to keep as many of the water-soluble vitamins as possible is to steam or grill foods, rather than boil them, or to use the cooking water in soups or stews rather than pouring it away.
                      Water-soluble vitamins are vitamin C, the B vitamins and folic acid.
                      There are also many other types of vitamins and minerals that are an important part of a healthy diet.”



                      This is a Flow chart which contain the points essential in the above paragraph. That’s all important with in the words!
                      So what’s easy for you?

                      How it feed your memory?
                      1. By sight

                       3. Teach

                      The one exclusive sign of thorough knowledge is the power of teaching.-Aristotle-


                          Yes teaching! It’s a really good way for any of you, only if you are a good at explaining things. You might be wondering how you get an opportunity to teach (You are still studying ha!)Don’t worry!That what friends are for. You can invite your friends to have a group study or you can help one of your friend to understand what he can’t. 
                         Don’t worry he won’t get good credits than you with your help!(he might get more credits so what? He is you friend) So help others and get improve yourself. But make sure that you know the lesson and have figured out it correctly. If you have even a little doubt about some point, ask him to wait for the next day until you can trust your knowledge.

                         It’s an exam!!If you refer to you memory in a wrong way, that’s bad and If you feed someone with a wrong concept that’s very bad. So make sure you understand the lesson.
                      I remember the way my friends and used to have group study sessions where everyone had a part of the lesson to explain.

                      How it feed your memory?
                      1.By explaining
                      2.By hearing
                      3.By discussing

                       4.Write

                      Start writing ,for the sake of your grades
                          
                      Write what you study simultaneously is another productive way you can improve your memory. All you have to do is just write down what you study roughly in a piece of paper. Important words, headings, important points, diagrams, symbols, equations, expressions, write down everything you feel as important. After you finish you studies, just go through that rough paper, and again in the next day morning. You can do it! Going through a paper doesn’t take lot of time.

                         I started to follow that technique when I was doing my finals. I have heard it from the days I went to middle school but I was too lazy to reach my bundle of rough work sheet, whenever I started studying. if you also someone like me, don’t let your laziness to win, go get some rough work papers, because it really guys!

                      How it feed your memory?
                      1.By sight
                      2.By reading
                      3.By writing

                      5. Listen

                      Spend sometime to listen  something wroth you,while spend most of the time with music.
                           
                      You know I had a friend who went to three tuition classes for one subject.

                      What the hell does he have time to study??No!

                           Do you believe if I say he never study, because he’s memory is a recorder, he remember every word thought in the class. He has no need of revising them because the lessons are in his brain as letters carved on a rock. Don’t worry he is just a weird creature, god forgot you finish editing.

                          As creatures god have properly edited we don’t have that super brain. But still we can get good results with this techniques. You remember the lyrics of your favourite song ha?

                      Why?

                          Because you have listened it again and again and again. That have automatically made the wards in the song familiar to you and then you know wall the lyrics. That’s what happen with your lessons too. Get a your phone and record your lessons explain by you or you can record when it taught in the class. And listen to it. Just let it reach your ear. Without any effort you’ll learn the lesson!

                      How it feed your memory?

                      1.By hearing

                      'If you have a dream, you can spend a lifetime studying, planning, and getting ready for it. What you should be doing is getting started.'-Drew Houston-

                      Now you are done with reading.So start doing it now!

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