15 Shopping tips for your fashions

1. Shop alone.

           Be alone wolf in shopping. It’ll save your time, money as well as your fashion.

2.Try three sizes not one.

          Most of the time sizes of the same product in different brands varies, especially in shoes and bras.                               So try two three sizes and figure out what fit you, giving your more comfort.


3.Know your colour.
             Your colour depends on your skin tone and with your body shape. Your skin tone makes be warm or cold. White, black, gray, silver, and shades of blue are the best for cold skin tones while shades of yellow, gold, brown, green and red matches with warm skin. When it comes to body shape darker colours make you look slimmer.

4.Buy a quality iron.

              A good iron’ll give your outfit a neat and decent look and improve you personality. At the same time money you invest in a good quality iron ‘ll minimize the damage that can happen to the fabric and it ‘ll save lot of money since your clothes live long. Make sure to check whether you can use this iron on toughest tangles to delicate fabrics.

5.Buy a good wallet.

              It’s also another item which reflects your style. So invest on a good wallet it’ll save you facing embracing moments.

6.Buy a stylish umbrella.

              It may be shine or rain, stylish colourful umbrella‘ll stick your look with fashion.

7.Try everything on.

               It’s not good to be lazy on shopping. Spend few minutes and try everything on. If not you may walk away with low quality unfit products.

8.Don’t pretend it fits.

            Everybody know that too tied blouse or deep neckline won’t get fit you perfectly just after you arrive home. Don’t pretend that it fit in you. It’ll only stay in your closet forever. So don’t waste your money on such.

9.List.

             Make a list of the things you really want to buy. You can save your time and money with a list for sure.

10.If you shop for a special outfit go special.

            Head to the store with makeup on, proper undergarments, and your hair semi-done to get a better sense of how it’ll look with the outfit. If you are shy for this make up on and hair thing at least make sure that you go with proper under garments.

11.Perfect fittings are the best.

            It may be the baggy or the tied are in the trend. But always keep in mind go more for perfectly fitting clothes.

12.Choose your handy hat.

      A structured hat should rest about 1/8 to a 1/2-inch above the ears.
13.Buy what you use and care for

            If you dicied to buy something because it’s beautiful knowing that for the rest of your life it ‘ll be in the very corner of your closet,don’t buy it.It’ll be just a waste of money.At the same time don’t buy stuffs you can’t give a proper care like clothes that you have to hand wash.

14.Think again
           If you’re unsure about an impulse or sale purchase, leave it at the store. If you’re still thinking about it when you wake up the next day, buy it.

15.Buy beauty supporting stuff.

• Don’t underestimate the power of a well-fitting, stylish winter coat. 
• You can be wearing pajamas underneath and you’ll still look perfectly put together.
• The same color of your skin, which gives give the illusion that your legs extend a few extra inches.
• Always choose the smaller denim size, since jeans stretch with wear.
• Everyday bras should be replaced every three to six months, as that’s when they start to lose elasticity and support.
• A structured hat should rest about 1/8 to a 1/2-inch above the ears.
• Invest in silk or satin pillowcases to keep your hair from breaking during the night. They also keep your skin looking smoother than rough cotton cases.

Are you irresponsible too?

        

Do you know who the most irresponsible person in the world is? Tarah! It’s me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I ‘m a person who doesn’t know my mobile number. Not even my fiancé’s mobile number. No shame I didn’t remember it when he was my bf.
Err……What a shame. I’m a person who likes to spend a light life. Who never bother about anything even for the thing should be bothered sometimes.

       I never remember a birth day. Not any of my friends. But once I could remember a birthday of one of my friend on the exact someday. So I phoned her and wished her.
”YES! At last I could remember one of my friend’s birth days. At least one of the them.”
I thought. It was a big deal to me. You know it’s a huge improvement for a person who can remember none though it is one. She heard so surprised and happy over the phone.(because she laughed)”My birth day was in last month. Anyway I’ll count it for my next birth day “she said. 

Poor me!

      Can you believe that I only use my neurons when there’s no one who cares around me? Let me be more specific. When I walk on the road, if I have someone going with me, I don’t bother better to say my whatever working on being responsible don’t bother to care about the vehicles or another harm which can be cause because of carelessness .



 Even when crossing the road I don’t feel like I should check any vehicles coming, I keep all the things up to the person who goes with me, to do for me. I think it’s his or her job to look around and make safe moves. Because it’s affect to him or her too. I feel it like why two minds should bother about the same thing. I introduce it to myself with the word of waste. Sometimes it may be my laziness. 

OMG! 

Can you believe there is a mind that is lazy not even to make sure safe of itself? But that’s my brain. Sometimes it may not be my brain malfunction. It may be the way my brain had to live with me causes this issue. Now my viruses have infected it too. Don’t feel it’s like letting all the things done for you by another? Or it’s what you called laziness or responsiveness?

     But when I ‘m alone I’m so keep in touch with everything around me. Every person next to me. All the vehicles passed by. On such instances everything seems work in order. Only then my ‘responsibility ‘comes out. Only then I concern about more things. I can manage everything by myself no matter how much my work makes me busy.

  I ‘m person with a good memory. I can remember any face in one look. I’m really good at studies and rarely had poor grades. And I could by heart things easily. But I can’t remember those small but important things. I think it’s not my inability;It’s my carelessness; I don’t bother to remember those.

  So, part of my brain that is in charge of remembering those things also giving less attention to those data. It doesn’t bother to remember things like numbers, special dates and it don’t bother not even in my own issues sometimes. But I must tell you there is sixth senses in me to guide me in the correct direction.;)

  I don’t know whether I fell more responsiveness because many advice me about this. Only thing I clearly know is that ,It make my loving ones so worry about me. Sometimes make them so disappointed on me. 
But I ‘m still called it “my identity”;)

    When it comes to expenses, my day today routing it’s the same. But I still could manage my brain behaviors since I survived with it more than two decades. But sometimes it makes me also disappointed about myself. Why I’m doing the same mistake again and again. Why I make my loving ones  fell disappointment because of my own  work. Why my brain or whatever dealing with those things can’t keep those in mind. 

   Today itself I came across with such an occasion which made me nuts. Today I thought I should keep full stop to this irresponsible behavior. I thought I should force myself to me more responsible every time I do a mistake. And If I made a mistake for the second time I thought to give a punishment to myself which is not decided yet.

     I feel like this is also kind of a big deal. You know after all these decades at last at least I’ve thought of a way to get rid of this bad quality. I think it’s a huge improvement for a person who stuck with irresponsibility though it is small. So today is clear, who the hell know what’ll change in tomorrow.

How I made the hardest decision in my life?

   This life is very complicated. Very complicated than anyone can imagine sometimes. It’s like a graph which goes up and down. Sometimes it’s a success. Sometimes it’s a failure. No matter what, you should keep going. That is what you called living. It’s really hard sometimes. Hard enough to make you feel down. I too went through such an occasion in my life. It was terrible.Horrible like a nightmare. But those moments was real. Very real.

   It happened to me few years ago. Simply what I had to do in those frames in my life was to pick one from two. I know it sounds simple. 

  But trust me it was really hard decision for me. I think it was the hardest decision I‘ve made in my entire life. Actually I had to pick a side from two very heart touching parties to me. Better to say I had to drop one party forever. Sometimes I still can’t imagine how I made such a choice. How could I be so cold blooded?

  It was clear to me that, the party I’m going to drop won’t forgive me forever and will named me as a traitor. But the hardest part wasn’t being a traitor. It was to forget all the help I got from the party I’m going to drop. You may say it’s not a hard decision at all. 
Because you can just choose the party who has helped  you the most, who has care for you the most, who is the most toughing to your heart, who is  helpful to you the most.

   My bad!

  Both parties were balanced in my balance.
Neither up nor down. 

Huh!  

  What a terrible decision was it to me since it directly affected to my life. No matter what was the decision I make I was going to lose one party in my life forever. To be more clear, I was going to lose one party though I made a choice or not.

  I was so surprised of my life. I’ve never done anything wrong in my life with my knowledge. I’ve never hurt anyone in my life intentionally. So how I ‘m suppose to lose my hearties? Why I’m suppose to bare such a pain in my life. I felt like I‘ve being tested by whoever the almighty up their so badly. As everyone told me I was a sweet and cool person. I don’t know who or what it is, but it made me suffer. 

 

   I always asked myself “why always me?’But there was no one to answer me that time. I was alone. No one was with me. To be more specific I didn’t had the chance to tell about my problem not even to a friend. 
 Back then I felt like I was like a loving pet mouse kept in a cage. You get everything there accept freedom. I thought, I thought and I thought and I cried a lot. I’m a person who rarely cry and only when I ‘m helpless. 

  In this period of my life I was truly helpless. There was no one to help me and no one to ask for help because everything was in my hands. I didn’t had anyone to talk I didn’t had anyone who I can trust on. I only had with me with me. I felt really sorry about myself.

            ”you born along you die alone”

   So, why you need someone else to support you in survival? You are strong enough to be alone and survive along. If you could born and die alone. You are strong enough to make the correct decision. I’m pretty sure that you don’t know that you are the strongest when you are alone. 

 You have to find your strength do to right when you are alone. You have to find the strength to fight alone. You have to find your strength to face your life alone. You may not believe, if I say that the 'alone you' have the biggest strength. But it is been hidden for decades, since you always have received someone’s help and always sought for help in your life. 

 That’s what I‘ve learn in the time I was alone. I had on one on my side. No one to guide me. No one to show me the right path. I felt like the whole world was against me. All were against my way. It made me so down. I’ve never faced to such an occasion because I always had helps.

   You may be alone but you still can make the correct decision good for your life alone. Just listen to your heart. It’ll always tell you what is correct. My heart also told me what was good for me. It told me the side I should pick. But I couldn’t accept it as my decision at the beginning. How I could pick up one from the two heartiest parties in my life?

    But I had to. I had to make my decision making the least amount of damage in every means. At last I made that hardest and the saddest and one of the most important decision in my life on the basis of doing something good for another live. I dropped one party and pick the other. 

 Making my predicts success the party I’ve drop label me as a  traitor and a bad ass. They are fair from their side. They should never forgive me, after all the things they have done for me. But most painful thought is to know that ,they won’t ever know that what I did is the correct.

   My good name, my personality, my pride and my honor were wiped off after it. I have nothing left with me now. Noting! If I pick the other side I could have everything I lost but the others‘ll suffer lot. 

 

   So after all I’m happy for my life. With that decision I’ve made though I lose everything to myself I saved a life. And I’ll be able to be a part of lot of good works, which be for the sake of the society. 
  
I’m proud of me because I could be generous to sacrifice my  everything for a second party and for good though I miss everything I lost many times a day in my life. I think I should be grateful to my heart for leading me to the right direction. 

 So if you came across with situations where you are all alone just thrust your heart and proceed on. Always believe your heart it’ll guide you to the correct path. 
  
But after all I must tell you that bitter moments still make me so worried. I think I still can’t get rid of it and never will.

14 things to do with in your own city when you are bored?

1.Go window shopping

  Window shopping is really fun and helps you to get touch with new trends of cloths and fashion. At the same time you can do it for free. Some may embrace to go for window shopping without buying anything. But how I can buy things which are not match worth what I thought!;)

2.Walk in the very nearest street in your town you never been.

   
   You may new to your city or may be old but there are streets you never have visited yet. So go for it. See what there are who the people in there and their life style. I’ ll be a new experience to you. I’m sure you‘ll feel like you are walking in foreign land.

3.observe birds around  you.

    It shouldn’t have to be birds any animal is ok for this. Watch their behavior, how they look and walk. It‘ll forget everything in your mind for some time. Make you smile and feel free and happy.

4.Talk with a stranger.

  Always keep in mind there may be a risk in this but still really fun. So make sure you choose a person for this carefully and kill your time.

5.take lot of photos in your own city.

    You don’t need to own a camera for this. Just use your phone if you don’t have one. Look around your city with mind to capture a good shot. You‘ll see amazing and inspiring may be funny things around you. It may be people or may places or buildings just capture it.

6.write crazy words in windows in shops.

Write anything you like. Make sure to be quick and fast if not you ‘ll get caught.

7.Go to each and every store nearby.

    It may be a grocery or a hardware shop computer shop or a clothe store just go inside and have a look. See what inside to buy and keep in mind. It’ll be really helpful when you need something because you know where you can buy it.

8.Have chat with a waiter in the restaurant you go often.

   Have a small chat with a waiter who always serves you. It’ll help you in the future if you are willing to go to that restaurant more often.

9.watch people in streets from an upstairs.

    This is really good and fun too. Some may say it’s bit rude but it’s still fun! What I suggest is watch people from above your eye’ll catch lot of funny things without catching their eyes! since your above them people won’t notice you looking at them.

10. Count vehicles.

    This, you can do it while you are in your home or on the road. Count the cars bikes vans cabs etc separately. Or count vehicles go your left and right. It’ll be very enthusiastic activity to do when you are bored!

11.visit a religious place in your city.

    Go to a religious place which is not you belong. And observe what the people belong to it follow their religion. Talk with them and learn bit about more about another religion.You’ll find something good you can add to your life with such a visit.

12.Talk with a foreigner.

   If your city usually has foreigners try to talk to them. Sometimes it may hard for them to manage English and you may not get his or her accent. But just talk and use your body language if necessary. Help those as you can.

13.watch moving branches sitting on a beach under it.
  

   Go to the park in your city and sit under tree and watch the moving branches of the other trees and itself. It’ll really calm your mind.

14.Watch a police officer who control in the traffic.

   Traffic controlling police officer is also will help get rid of your broadness. Watch him and understand the hard duty he is doing and think how you could manage the traffic if you was there.