Are you too had a terrible day?

  
   Everyone has terrible days. Mine was yesterday. I feel like so ugly to remind it even. From the morning of yesterday it begins to suck. I woke up yesterday too early accidentally and I couldn’t again fall in sleep till the correct time comes.

  For a sleep lover every minute in your sleep is important. And yesterday I missed two hours of it. It was a cold morning and can you imagine what kind of a great sleep I have missed? 

 This made me angry with myself a lot because I was working so late night in the past few days. I was tired and yesterday was the only day to this week I could get a along sleep. POOR ME! I don’t know what was wrong with yesterday because usually I can sleep in anytime at anywhere whenever I want!

   So that was the beginning of a sucking day. But I had to proceed my day to the end though my heart told me several times to stay at home and sleep as you wish. I forgot the morning thing and started to work on my rest of the day. I wanted to have better day no matter what happen in the morning. 

 But I missed my train and was late to my work. That missed train messed all my schedules’ had to hurry knowing I can’t make it. I had many things on my list on yesterday.I had to go to the post office to post some mails. I had to shop for a party. I had to decorate the house. I had to cook. At the same time I had to do some office work. And I had to do everything along.

  Everything was messed up and I was so busy which made me forget to breath. Worst thing was I was really tried and haven’t had a good sleep from days and my gastritis have risen to the max.

While I was shopping I lost my wallet. And I feel what kind of a hell is today! Fortunately I could find my wallet inside my own bag.i think it was since my head was on fire along the whole day. 

  OMG!
 What a day was yesterday! 
I still can smell its messiness! 

 Yesterday was a day in my life which went very wrong out of my control.

     I think not only me; everyone has such days in their life’s sometimes which they can remember for their rest of the life. A day which makes you nuts. A day which makes you do disappointed about yourself so much. A day which makes you regret about your work. A day you lose something very precious. A day which makes you so sad and worried. It may be yesterday today or tomorrow. No matter what day is it, those days sucks!

    As I told you before my day was yesterday! No matter how mess up my work I managed to complete all of them. I was too tired and fed up of my life. I was walking back to the train station to go back home. And my eyes stopped at a beautiful sight. It was the floral store. There were lot of fresh flowers in different colours.I went in. That natural fragrance! I smell the pleasant and sweet fragrance of roses and lot of other flowers. 

 Though it was in the middle of the city some bees were buzzing around collecting nectar from the beautiful flowers. Carnations, Roses, Lilys, and many other fresh flowers in which I don’t know their names were there. 

  In the next moment all I want to do is buy some flowers. Because I felt like those flowers made my day better wiping out all the bad in it. And I didn’t want to miss it as I’m step out from that shop. I want to have in my home to fix my day and mind more and more.

    So I buy some flowers bouquet which contains random leaves, buds and flowers. I took them home and spent ten minutes to arrange it nicely in my favorite vase. Believe it or not I feel like I’m in heaven. All my tiredness and fade up feelings vanished away after it. I felt so fresh and new. 

 All the bad things happened to me in yesterday was no longer bothering to me after I saw those flowers. It changed my mood like a magic. I forget everything for sometimes while I worked with them. It made me think that no matter how worst the situation there are many things that you should impressed of.

   So if you too had a bad day! Try some fresh flower arrangement. I think it ll make you better too. Because we are children’s of the natures and nature, our mother is always there to inspire us. Impressed us. 


   Just try and see how much of a relief‘ll it give you! If you don’t like to spend money no buying fresh flowers which is bit expensive try some artificial flowers or you can get some fresh flowers from you  own garden or if you don’t mind ask from a neighbour. 

 Spending some time with flowers vanish the bad of a terrible day!

All I want to do is get rid of that hurting past!

 Now all I want to do is forget my past. Not the whole past but a chapter of it. All the best memories. All the warm hugs. All  the lovely moments. I feel terrible. How can you forget a whole chapter in my life, just because you want to? All the happiness and love. Not only that sad too. Anger, fear humor and everything was there in that chapter. That chapter contained many sweet memories. So how could you forget such things? But no matter how it should be forgotten.

  You may also have such chapters in your life. It may the chapter you went wrong or may be the chapter you lost in or it may be the chapter you done most rightly or it may be the chapter you given up for the sake of some one else. To you it may be the sweetest chapter or may be the bitterest one in your book of life which may make you so worried and sad.

  It is the chapter makes your heart full of pain sometimes which make you feel that it’s so hard to bear. You miss that chapter so much. More than you can express. But you have no other choice you have to admit it. You may think that your heart has nowhere else left to hold another bit of pain. But the pain flows like river. You can’t stop. You have no sight of an end of the pain. You cry. You may scream. But the pain remains for the next day, exactly as it was yesterday. It’s the pain of love.

  No cure just the pain. No sign of a day it heel. Every day in your day to day routing you come across with situations which make you remind of that chapter you want to forget. It may when you wake up and look around your room. It may be when you on your way to your work. In the middle of a conversation you may remind some pages in that chapter. 

 It won’t have to be big situations it may be a small flower or a bird or a place. Present situations remind you, your past. It may be sweet or bitter you see everything inside your mind like movie.

  But, still you want to forget it.Becausse you know that memories cause you more pain. You may try to escape the situations which remind you that chapter. No relief from it. You still come across with such situations. Cause you also don’t know what exactly to escape from. Because your list of “escape from” won’t end. But you still want to forget that chapter.

  Remember a book is not complete without one chapter. You can’t understand the story of that book without reading that missing chapter. The story you read won’t be complete without that chapter. The chapter you are dying to forget is also the same. Your life is incomplete with that chapter. In a book, If you try to remove the pages belong to particular chapter in the middle of that book, the whole book get destroyed.

  Most important thing is to keep in mind is that each and every chapter in a book is there for a reason. It’s there, to make the bridge the previous and next chapter. In the book of life it is the same. You can’t remove one chapter completely from you life. If you are trying to do so, you’ll face for your destruction. 

 At the same time it is in your life for a reason. It’ll behave as bridge to a better future. Today you won’t deny it but one day you‘ll understand that chapter was there for your good.

  What I want to say in this blog is that you can’t undo any chapter in you life. You can’t forget all the sweet or bitter memories in there. But you can struggle with it. You can turn yourself to love it instead of trying to forget. It may be the worst most ashamed or may be the sweetest period of your life which you missed a lot. Admit the truth and happy for that period. No matter what that period gave to your life, sweetness or bitterness, learn lessons from it. 

 

Take guidance to your life from it. If it is sweet memories that chapter and be happy about your past but make sure directly come to the present without comparing you past and the present. Keep in mind that life always has up and downs. It’s not when you down to be fear of. It when you are up. Because if you are up, down is closing to you. Be happy you are near to an up. 

  So try to change things. be courageous. Don’t give up. Take the guidance from your past and make yourself stronger and stronger to face for your future. Then there’ll be no one can stand against your way. Show to the world how strong you are and what a simple is the past is. Show them that there’s lot better to come .Because when something worst happens best comes stacked with it. So never let your past to control you. Let you control your past. That’s the way it work!

11 Annoying things girls do,which should known by every girl

 I’m a female who born with lady parts. And I have long hair and want to grow it longer. 

 I love to wear frocks and any outfit wear by ladies. I love being a girl and love my curves. I love to be present in the society as a female. I love myself and my gender. But 

I don’t like to be girlish.

 It not from the outside but from the inside. So I got the change to read  these kind of bad behaviours with in females.

This post is based on my personal experiences I'm quite sure, there are lot of ladies who are truly sweet from their heart who still have at least one of these qualities out there reading this.

My gorgeous ladies, who don't like to be the best and the prettiest among others ha? So,

 if you find out this post please share this, so another lady can recognize their weakness and be more pleasant to others.

  I don’t say every women in the world have those behaviours but  though I haven’t met the every lady in the world ,I know that  every woman have at least one such behaviour.Here are some awkward behaviours I can remember at the moment.

1.Cry baby cry 

  I don’t know anyone have notice this thing many women use their cry as a weapon against men. It may be the way god have gave her to fight but I only feel that it only contains helplessness.

 When something bad happened she cries. When something bad about to happen she cries .She waste her whole energy to cry, which never help in solving her problem.

 So how that situation gonna get better?

2.Clean crazy

They care about their sanitary unnecessarily  too much, that make other sick of their behaviour. Everything is YUCK to them, which are even not to others.

I know a lady who afraid of the kitten in her house as it's 'Ebola' infected. That's my AUNT.

3.Speedy judger 

  Most of the women never wait to take the judge of something until she knows the whole story. It may be something bad that solved in a better way at the end. But she only listen to the first have and start to cry or get frighten. You can’t even finish the story.

4.Nonstop reapeator 

  When women start to scold at you she never stops. She repeats the something for several times.

Think about the times your mum have blame at you for something happened a year ago?

When she hear something or when something happens to her ...

Reaction is the same!

 Everybody around her  can tell the next word she going to say to the next phone call.

5.Detail doll

  This is the most pathetic one. Think you too have it or?

Some ladies tell everything in micro detailed version.

  'I met a women yesterday in the bus who sit next to me, wearing fine clothes, rich jewelry, nice hand bag and some make up. Her hair was good and seem so decent. But she coughed without using her hands! Bad ha?'

 Got what I'm talking about?

  What more annoying is they expect us to tell them micro version of our story, which is mostly forgotten. And that's where her endless questioning starts!!

6.Parasite

  Some women think that they a parasite of a male. According to them they can’t do anything without a man. They try to depend in every means from men.

  I have seen women who need to lift a bit heavy chair from one place to another in the same room.

7.Mega speaker

  I’m a chatter box. I talk very much but I make sure to not let the listener think that I’m babbling. (I think so;))

 But  the mega speakers who I hate, talks so loudly and gossip around without concerning the background or try to share each and every small thing with others which doesn't even  worth the effort turning it in to words.

This behaviour make the other feel annoy. He or she knows that this don't worth listening and get bored. But the M.Speaker never stop until her story ends.

8. Srecret shouter

 Yes this is the bitter truth!

Ladies admit it.

 Most of us can’t keep secrets. If someone tells you to keep a secret at least you'll tell it to your  most trustworthy one or two.

9.Neat girl

   Oh god! There are some girls who are too much neatly. Who always touch her hair to check its not messed. 

   Those people never let any hair to go out from the order they have arranged. Those won't do any hard activity because of their outfit dirty or bit sweaty or bit of tangled. If she any pleats in her skirt she try to make her pleats every time before she sits.

10.Rabbit fear 

 Freighting terribly, even for a very small things is the next annoying behaviour you might have.

  It’s like a rabbit get frighten even to the sound when a leaf fall off from a tree. It's useless being frighten for such a thing because it won’t do a harm to the rabbit.

  It may be a small insect to a small life matter they get fear which makes them go near death.

11.Zoomer

  Some women take very small thing so serious and think a lot about that issue unnecessarily. To everyone it’s just nothing but to her it feel like in hell.

 I think those are the qualities make a woman look a complete a carp, making someone forgetting the beauty of feminine and her beautiful heart.

 Those behaviours is a headaches to others. 

Trust me I’ve seen it.

 Too the others it’s so annoying and awkward when someone treats him or her with the above behaviours.

  It seems sometimes like women use those behaviors too much intentionally which make me say acting not behaving.(Think honestly)

 I too have had most of those with in the past twenty years of my life. But when I grow up I figured out those awkward behaviours of women and work intentionally to keep those annoying behavours aside.

 Unfortunately I feel like some of those actings still  appear on me. What to do. No offense but I’m a girl too. But I still try to push them aside from me.

  To me those behaviuors are truly awkward and disgusting.

I'm sure you too have come up with people like this.

  But I must say that, I’m not saying that not every woman is with all this qualities above. I must say at least every woman have one of them.

 Why you should change those behaviours?

  I like to tell each and every woman in the world that, this is not a insult, those behaviours should there for the sake of the world,since most of the women have those qualities it may be the way might god expected from the lady in the balance of the nature.

   But who the hell like to be such an annoy to another?

   Who don't like to be the best and the prettiest?

That's why I suggest you to think about this a minute

  If any lady is reading this please think a minute. You too have one of above qualities.?

  Just think how that quality has effected on you in the negative side. Think how the other around you may feel about you when you are behaving like that.

'No one 'll come to help you and show your faults unless laughing at you'

That's why you have to start your mission secretly on your own.

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15 Shopping tips for your fashions

1. Shop alone.

           Be alone wolf in shopping. It’ll save your time, money as well as your fashion.

2.Try three sizes not one.

          Most of the time sizes of the same product in different brands varies, especially in shoes and bras.                               So try two three sizes and figure out what fit you, giving your more comfort.


3.Know your colour.
             Your colour depends on your skin tone and with your body shape. Your skin tone makes be warm or cold. White, black, gray, silver, and shades of blue are the best for cold skin tones while shades of yellow, gold, brown, green and red matches with warm skin. When it comes to body shape darker colours make you look slimmer.

4.Buy a quality iron.

              A good iron’ll give your outfit a neat and decent look and improve you personality. At the same time money you invest in a good quality iron ‘ll minimize the damage that can happen to the fabric and it ‘ll save lot of money since your clothes live long. Make sure to check whether you can use this iron on toughest tangles to delicate fabrics.

5.Buy a good wallet.

              It’s also another item which reflects your style. So invest on a good wallet it’ll save you facing embracing moments.

6.Buy a stylish umbrella.

              It may be shine or rain, stylish colourful umbrella‘ll stick your look with fashion.

7.Try everything on.

               It’s not good to be lazy on shopping. Spend few minutes and try everything on. If not you may walk away with low quality unfit products.

8.Don’t pretend it fits.

            Everybody know that too tied blouse or deep neckline won’t get fit you perfectly just after you arrive home. Don’t pretend that it fit in you. It’ll only stay in your closet forever. So don’t waste your money on such.

9.List.

             Make a list of the things you really want to buy. You can save your time and money with a list for sure.

10.If you shop for a special outfit go special.

            Head to the store with makeup on, proper undergarments, and your hair semi-done to get a better sense of how it’ll look with the outfit. If you are shy for this make up on and hair thing at least make sure that you go with proper under garments.

11.Perfect fittings are the best.

            It may be the baggy or the tied are in the trend. But always keep in mind go more for perfectly fitting clothes.

12.Choose your handy hat.

      A structured hat should rest about 1/8 to a 1/2-inch above the ears.
13.Buy what you use and care for

            If you dicied to buy something because it’s beautiful knowing that for the rest of your life it ‘ll be in the very corner of your closet,don’t buy it.It’ll be just a waste of money.At the same time don’t buy stuffs you can’t give a proper care like clothes that you have to hand wash.

14.Think again
           If you’re unsure about an impulse or sale purchase, leave it at the store. If you’re still thinking about it when you wake up the next day, buy it.

15.Buy beauty supporting stuff.

• Don’t underestimate the power of a well-fitting, stylish winter coat. 
• You can be wearing pajamas underneath and you’ll still look perfectly put together.
• The same color of your skin, which gives give the illusion that your legs extend a few extra inches.
• Always choose the smaller denim size, since jeans stretch with wear.
• Everyday bras should be replaced every three to six months, as that’s when they start to lose elasticity and support.
• A structured hat should rest about 1/8 to a 1/2-inch above the ears.
• Invest in silk or satin pillowcases to keep your hair from breaking during the night. They also keep your skin looking smoother than rough cotton cases.

Are you irresponsible too?

        

Do you know who the most irresponsible person in the world is? Tarah! It’s me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I ‘m a person who doesn’t know my mobile number. Not even my fiancé’s mobile number. No shame I didn’t remember it when he was my bf.
Err……What a shame. I’m a person who likes to spend a light life. Who never bother about anything even for the thing should be bothered sometimes.

       I never remember a birth day. Not any of my friends. But once I could remember a birthday of one of my friend on the exact someday. So I phoned her and wished her.
”YES! At last I could remember one of my friend’s birth days. At least one of the them.”
I thought. It was a big deal to me. You know it’s a huge improvement for a person who can remember none though it is one. She heard so surprised and happy over the phone.(because she laughed)”My birth day was in last month. Anyway I’ll count it for my next birth day “she said. 

Poor me!

      Can you believe that I only use my neurons when there’s no one who cares around me? Let me be more specific. When I walk on the road, if I have someone going with me, I don’t bother better to say my whatever working on being responsible don’t bother to care about the vehicles or another harm which can be cause because of carelessness .



 Even when crossing the road I don’t feel like I should check any vehicles coming, I keep all the things up to the person who goes with me, to do for me. I think it’s his or her job to look around and make safe moves. Because it’s affect to him or her too. I feel it like why two minds should bother about the same thing. I introduce it to myself with the word of waste. Sometimes it may be my laziness. 

OMG! 

Can you believe there is a mind that is lazy not even to make sure safe of itself? But that’s my brain. Sometimes it may not be my brain malfunction. It may be the way my brain had to live with me causes this issue. Now my viruses have infected it too. Don’t feel it’s like letting all the things done for you by another? Or it’s what you called laziness or responsiveness?

     But when I ‘m alone I’m so keep in touch with everything around me. Every person next to me. All the vehicles passed by. On such instances everything seems work in order. Only then my ‘responsibility ‘comes out. Only then I concern about more things. I can manage everything by myself no matter how much my work makes me busy.

  I ‘m person with a good memory. I can remember any face in one look. I’m really good at studies and rarely had poor grades. And I could by heart things easily. But I can’t remember those small but important things. I think it’s not my inability;It’s my carelessness; I don’t bother to remember those.

  So, part of my brain that is in charge of remembering those things also giving less attention to those data. It doesn’t bother to remember things like numbers, special dates and it don’t bother not even in my own issues sometimes. But I must tell you there is sixth senses in me to guide me in the correct direction.;)

  I don’t know whether I fell more responsiveness because many advice me about this. Only thing I clearly know is that ,It make my loving ones so worry about me. Sometimes make them so disappointed on me. 
But I ‘m still called it “my identity”;)

    When it comes to expenses, my day today routing it’s the same. But I still could manage my brain behaviors since I survived with it more than two decades. But sometimes it makes me also disappointed about myself. Why I’m doing the same mistake again and again. Why I make my loving ones  fell disappointment because of my own  work. Why my brain or whatever dealing with those things can’t keep those in mind. 

   Today itself I came across with such an occasion which made me nuts. Today I thought I should keep full stop to this irresponsible behavior. I thought I should force myself to me more responsible every time I do a mistake. And If I made a mistake for the second time I thought to give a punishment to myself which is not decided yet.

     I feel like this is also kind of a big deal. You know after all these decades at last at least I’ve thought of a way to get rid of this bad quality. I think it’s a huge improvement for a person who stuck with irresponsibility though it is small. So today is clear, who the hell know what’ll change in tomorrow.