I
was at the beach few days ago with my friends. Oh! That drawny, sandy white
beach and that bluish water!!
The
ice white wave that hit the shore, try to wipe us and carry us with it and the
strong wind that try to go through our body!
All
of us were sitting and watching the sunset and one of our friend never stopped
complaining about her work place throughout the day. She didn't seem enjoy the
scenery, I doubt that she saw it even. She was missing some great and a
fabulous hours of her life.
That
was the time, got idea for this blog post!
First
let's talk about you.
What
are you doing right now? What are you thinking about while ago? Were you happy?
How
about the plan for tomorrow?
Are
you too a person who fed of your work or the place you have to spend a lot of
time, thanks to your surrenders?
Then
keep continue reading!
You
may be someone who wishing you had more number on your side. People to talk,
people who really accept you,help you other than officially, people to be
comfortable with!
The
new place you just arrived or still can be known as new, though it have been
few months, may be years, full of weird people with way more different from you
(as you feel)!
Is
that the kind of place where you are now or the place you have spend more time
in each day?
Everybody
around you is unkind, trying to put you down. You seem neglected, cut off by
them though you are really a part of it.
A day full of stress ,discomfort, loneliness
make you fed and frustrated every day.
Every
morning reminds you the hell waiting there for you,with no friends, kindness ,help,
comfortable talk, doubt, but only the cold blooded creatures! (That is from her
words that day.)
This
is your life and you need to make you feel good and be more confident about you.
Right?
Don't
worry! Salvage is here..
Life
is a series of episodes, that differ from one to another! Thrust me completely
different.
New
people, new environment are natural things comes in everyone's way along the
series.
But accepting those changes are not easy for
anyone!
Here
are reasons, you need to get rid of the way you think about your surround.
1.Less productivity.
Negativity
is the best key of less productivity. When any mind rock with, hate, annoy, discomfort
and doubt it won't contribute it's best to the task you are up to.
You
can't blame it!
It has lot of to think about like 'Am I doing
it wrong? 'is he laughing at me?' 'What may be the conspiracy going out there?'.
You
may find you take lot of time to finish a piece of work, which don't not need
such time by yourself. You catch up you thinking about the hell surrounding and
about a day it get better.
You
being less productive or better to say weak as you don't use to be, because you
get distracted with your negativity.
So
that's why you have to leave those thoughts behind.
2.Good quality holder
They
are rude; unkind and errrr..
You
keep comparing with the with the way you treat a human and the way they do.
That's
good!
You have something to compare mean, you have
better qualities than them. You can figure out that a human a colleague should
be treated in a better way than this.
Your
parents have raised you, giving regular doses form the bottles of 'good
qualities' and 'humanity'!
That's
the treasure in your heart no one can buy. You are rich as you own a treasure
inside but they are still really poor.
3.Spoil your own life
You
have no right to even spoil your own life.
'Just
living is not enough... one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.' -Hans Christian Andersen-
You
deserve happiness, fun, joy.
Don't
get stuck and worry about the same thing again and again. Worrying take you to
nowhere.
As
I've told you before you are only acting in another episode of 'life'. Stop sobbing
that, this is your life forever.
Things
will change than you can imagine. No matter how hard to be there, enjoy yourself.
Your
work, your words(even the few)anything you do there. Happy for it. Enjoy what
you do.
Then
you'll forget your frustration
4.See no way out
For
how long you have to be there? You are afraid to think about the answer ha?
That's
why you need to wipe those hell thoughts out!
How
much you have suffered with in this short period of time? How much more you
have to go through?
And
that's why you need to find a way to look at things in a better angle.
No
one can work with a head ache. That's why you have to find a way to keep it
aside.
5.You have a plan
Your
are a person who already have a plan for your life. A big one. That's why you
start growing yourself bigger, as to get fit to your plan. Remember?
Sometimes
it may be not that big. Just limited to paying bills or for living or that's
what others do or that's what parents need. But you can't say it's not a plan.
How
you going to accomplish your plan without walking though this step you've
included in your plan?
'Failing to plan is planning to fail.'
-Alan Lakein-
Don't
let you plan to fail, because it's not that bad.
Just let your courage to roar!
Trust me it's there inside.
Remember,you
are there, in order to get completed your plan. Not to pleased others or to expecting mommy care from
others.
6.You needed it
No
matter how small or big is your plan, you are the one, who needed to do this.
Because that's the only way out.
No
one forced you to go there on the first day. It was you, who needed to go
there.
And
you needed it, because of the great plan lies in front you, the one you have
planned, the plan you willing to achieve.
7.You are on your way to
achieve it
You
had a plan and you took steps to achieve your the top in your plan. You
committed a lot. You waited. You've being lot patience bearing all the hardness
there.
All
that hard will worth at the end. Most important thing is that you is you are achieving
what you have planed, though there are bit of dark shadows, thing are going
well according to what you have planned.
So a place where help you to achieve
you cannot be a hell unless a heaven.
8.Who care about others
The
cold blooded hearts waiting there to tie your arms till your drawn and all the
laughing bags waiting at the hell to laugh at you whenever you get wrong make
you think you suck! ha?
Sometimes
it may be the way they neglect you, feel you low with their comments or they
try to stay high "your highness position making you the slave. Again you
feel 'I suck'
Words are not arrows unless you see them as
arrows. Behaviours are the same. Nothing going to pierce your body unless you
let it.(Remember I'm not talking about physical harassments)
Let
it go!
'Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones
worth suffering for.'
-Bob Marley-
9.Waste of your time
'Nobody can hurt me without my permission.'
-Mahatma Gandhi-
Every
minute you spend to think about, talk about is a waste. Remember the life is
too short and you have lot more to discover of your own.
Be
a man who waste your time to find the value of your life, not on a bin of
garbage.
'A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of
life.'
-Charles Darwin-
10.Feel sorry for them
They
are popular, rich with knowledge, power, money, socially, or with any other thing.
But still poorest from the heart.
What
you must understand in money, knowledge, popularity can be earn with hard work
and a great effort.what about good qualities? Can anyone earn them? Collect
from somewhere else?
If
you miss it in your childhood, then you lost it for your whole life.
So
be sorry for them as they can't ever achieve what you have. Be happy as you are
still in possible range to cover up all they have(At least have a possibility
ha?)
Don't bother about how they treat you, just feel sorry for them as they have no
rich heart.
11.You choose it
If
it's a hell but still on exists on the earth, that' you who have made it a hell. You can give lot of
excuse but still you are the one who name it to be a hell.
If
you don't bother about other's action, words, maintain higher humanity with a
regular attach to your religion, you will realize, hell is way more worst from
what you have around you.
'Too often in life,
something happens and we blame other people for us not being happy or satisfied
or fulfilled. So the point is, we all have choices, and we make the choice to
accept people or situations or to not accept situations.'
-Tom Brady-
Remember
there are lot of people who live in real hells even in this earth. The people
who drown in poverty, low sanitary, natural deserters, diseases.
You
are lucky. What you have may be less, but you have much more than what they
have.
So
be happy.
Don't waste a minute not
being happy. If one window closes, run to the next window- or break down a
door.
Brooke Shields
So
there is a chance for you to name it in
a different way.
That's
why you should immediately put a full stop to those negative thoughts inside
you.
Wind
and the sea wave may be weak. But what about a Tsunami and a tornado! So be
that Tsunami.
Be that tornado .Be confident. Be courageous.
And wipe your
negativity away and let your mind absorb positive you used to have.
You
may be alone, while the whole world against you.
But 'when you are alone, you
are the strongest'
Because
that's where your life come with the sixth sensor to guide you.
Today's
morning must had alarmed you with that awkward reminder. So how about tomorrow?
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