17 signs to know he truly love you

  
 Love is wired and complicated sometimes.It is complicated enough to drive us mad.Girls, are you too having doubt about his love for you?'I love you' isn't seem true to you?Don't worry I have something specially for you,to read his mind!It's easy and simple all you have to do is watch him!

  Yes this is easy and simple but still tough!Are you ready to count your 'yes's and 'No's?Are you ready to know he loves you or not?You can do it by yourself.Just read the signs below and count your 'yes' and 'no'.if you have more 'YES'!it's a big yeah!!.If you bit greater with the 'no',I think it's time for you to make a decision!

1.He cancels plans for you  (Yes/No)

   No matter how important those arrangements to him, it’s you who, he gives the first priority.

2.Regular texts and phone calls    (Yes/No)

  You get quick replies for almost every massage you send him! Quicker enough to make you think that ‘How can he type this fast?

3. Holding hand guy   (Yes/No)

   He love to hold your hand whenever he can, without having a reason.

4.You chat for hours about nothing    (Yes/No)  

   It may be something you see on the road, it may be something small happen to him, it lead to a chain of conversation, where you can’t remember the first topic that brings you here!

5.He doesn't look at his phone when you're around    (Yes/No)

   When you are around, he doesn’t want to play games or to reply to massages or to update his status. Because he loves to spend every bit of time with you.

6.He will adore your flaws and imperfection     (Yes/No)

   ‘It’s cute ‘that’s what he thinks about your imperfections and flaws. He is very patient with them also he tries to show your bads in a way that, you can’t say no to it and in a way your feelings not get hurt!

7.Fight often and seriously    (Yes/No)

   Seriously! Fighting!!Yep. If you too fight often and those fight goes so serious, that’s too love. No matter how made he is at you, he is so sorry because, he is not good with you.(he tells about it later)

8.He pays bills for you     (Yes/No)

   If your boyfriend truly loves you, he never miss any of your bills when he is around. He never put you limits to you, on the money you should spend, though it’s hard for him to afford it.

9.Mater of  lovely memory  (Yes/No)

   He surprises you with his words, since he seems to know things about you, which you don’t remember you have told him.

10.Future teller  (Yes/No)

  “How do you know?”is what spit out from your mouth. He can predict what your next action is and the next reaction or the next reply! That’s because of his deep investigation on you!

11.Patience.   (Yes/No)

   Same mistake for the second time, he forgive you after a small blaming session and a long lecture!

12.Healthy dose of jealousy    (Yes/No)  

     Hehe. Jealousy is not good. But if it in an OK dose! Yes..! it’s another sign that, your boyfriend loves you for real! Especially when you are around your male friends!;)

13.Honest emoji   (Yes/No)

     He is not shy to express what he feels with honesty, even in his bad times. He never gives a second thought to cry in front of you, because, he is sad.

14.Best secrets are only for you   (Yes/No)

    You are the one he choose to share his very confidential secrets with.No matter if he is the villain in the story!

15.Introduce you only to his VIP   (Yes/No)

    Only his best friends only be lucky to meet you. He don’t introduce to all his craps but only the descent ones, because he’s afraid they’ll make fun your body.

16.He introduces you to his family   (Yes/No)

    If he really loves you, he never thinks twice to introduce you his family. To be more specific he is  the first with the idea ‘I’ll introduce you to ma parents?’.

 17.He wants to know you got home safe.   (Yes/No)

     He makes sure you get home safely every time he can or he ask you to inform him just after you arrive your home. He really worried when you get late to arrive home.

  If you have more 'No's don't get upset you might get cheated but no more!Now you know the truth.It'll be hard at the fist,but try to admit it.it's your decision to to make,whether to be with him or not,but I recommend you to leave him,because you, gorgeous ladies, you deserve a better man than him!

P.s-feel free to share your ideas with me too!


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Why you should help others?

  Recently,I had to miss my lectures due to a family function,so I asked one of my friend to give me his notes, so I can get copies from it.When I was at the class next day ,he didn't give me notes but copies of them.He has copied all  the notes for me ,which was a real help to me ,because I was still busy with that post function things.I was really thankful of his work and thanked him for about ten minutes.And he said only one word.

                                  'It's my pleasure'

You hear that?'It's my pleasure'

    That's the reply back you get ,whenever you thanked for a help of someone.Is that really a pleasure to help others,according to the above expression?Then why you think twice to help another?Pleasure isn't  a bad thing!

  Everyone know that, this world is crazy competitive and each of us compete for lot of things, throughout our life time,ha?The action of 'help'is now being a strange thought to the present world due to this massive competition.This have made people cross their arms, when someone ask for a help.

 Is there is a connection between 'helping others and this'competition'?

Nothing at all!

   Helping others doesn't mean that you loose chances.
Helping others doesn't ,make you get back in the race when the other pass you by,towards victory.It doesn't make the other faster than you ,in the way along for your success.

Am I correct?

  If you have tried your best and put more effort and dedication and hard work,it 'll lead to your success but not the weak competitors around you!Because,if you haven't had the above factors,you'll also be a part of that weak group and no chance for you too.My friend and I are best competitors for being the batch top in every semester,But he still offer me a great friendship,because he have realized this point.

  So ,why we think twice to help someone?What make you think again?Why you freeze for a while and think about it again?

   Selfishness is what hold you back;what made you think again!That 'ish' doesn't realize that no bad can do to a helping hand!
Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle.But will it's light get diminished?Will it's life get shorten?

     Sharing is the same.

   Employing your knowledge,intelligence,compassion,also resources as you can,to help another,will give you satisfaction and 'll add a value to yourself.

'We make living by what we get,we make life by what we give'

            -Winston Churchill-

  I'm sure,you must be already living.So, keep a step forward to upgrade you, from'living'to 'life'.Because it'll make true and worthy impact on you.You'll be pleased whenever you remind what you have done.

  World give everything to us,without asking anything in return.Thought of compassion and will to help others are really easy,but still worthy ways you can repay the world.

"Service to others is a rent you pay for your room here on earth"-Mohamed Ali-

  As people who posses a heart,we have to teach ours hearts to melt in other's pain,because if the people who have helped you haven't had that kind of heart,Where your life'll be today?Though we admit or not,we all in circulating circle ,where no one can escape.Therefore we can't ignore anyone categorizing,under the name of 'useless'

  So,take a minute and think ,why you missed to give your hand,when someone ask for a help?(Don't lie to your self that 'i'm helping everyone'.Think about the moment you missed to help intentionally)Think why you missed it? What thought made you miss it?Is there any good logic behind that reason or just been a selfish?

  Start to help people as much as you can and whenever you can.Thrust me, a single word can also be a great help to someone.Never try to make it simplify  with the word"charity".Start it now!Because the life we have been offered,should be use for something more than ourselves.Also keep in mind,

'You get what you give'

If you have helped ten people ,at least there 'll be one to help you back when you are in trouble.

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Me and my blog

Hi!

  I'm Scylla!In this post I wanted to give you and clear idea about this blog.Plus!A bit more about this piece of admin crap!So make yourself comfortable.

Ready....?Here we go!!

   So, I'm the admin of this blog.As you all know,My name is Scylla.I'm a girl who enjoy my youth and passionate about criticizing the world and it's people,on the assumption of,  i'm the perfect(though i'm quiet far away form perfect);)I 'm a dreamer,a positive thinker and an expert on me.I love to experience new things and waiting for adventures.I'm a pink hater,animal lover too.

   I stated this blog,few months because i was bored and wanted to try something new.Here i'm continuing it now,with a better intention to make you guys inspire;to draw your attention to small things,everyone experience in your day today life,which are still big deal,in order to make you think again. Also to share my ideas with all of you guys, to bring up a better conversation to the world,thus we all can be part of  being a good influence to the others, at least in a bit.And i share tips for better studies as a minor topic! Here is the vision and mission of this blog

Vision.

  'Do good,be good And be the change,while chasing your dreams to win the life'


Mission

'Influence the people with inspiration,to be better and to be the first to make a change ,for a better world'

  With this blog,I hope to make you inspire,to make you courage,to make you strong enough to face the life and to make you think again about matters in life, with my posts.So,I would like to invite you to  read another of post of mine,spending a minute,to understand what exactly i'm doing here,if this is your first visit to my blog.

Love is something rude and uncivilized!Agree?
Is god only someone who you should beg from?
Capture it! Only if it's amazing,but not accident photos!
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                                                                  -Scylla-

                             

Never show your weakness to anybody

   Can you live along? Nop!

  You need others support ha?

  And that’s why there is lot of people around you for your support, for your protection, for your everything.

 The ones you love, the ones you care for, the one you believe, the ones who become closer to your heart with time, all are there in your list.

Yeah, there is a lot, isn’t it!

   You, me and everyone has such a group behind us, making us strong and courageous and doing all the good things to make us comfort. But, is that mean that they never going to turn on you? With their present behavior, can you be sure that, never do any bad to you? Never hurt you intentionally?

No you can’t! How the HELL you say so?

   Because nobody knows what‘ll happen tomorrow. Because no one knows what they’ll be doing and how they’ll be behaving after another year, may be two or may be ten. No matter is he an elder or a teen, here!

     Agree?

   Have you seen how best friend become best enemies? Have you seen how brothers fight like lunatic beasts? Have you heard how mothers have made their child a criminal?

Is that a ‘YES ‘in your mind?

   So how can you believe your hearties to never hurt you? (Intentionally)

  The people you share your life, your emotions, your failure, your secrets and your weakness with, are not going to use them against you?

   It’s hard for humans to be along, because everyone likes, to have somebody around you, for your support ,especially when something bad happen.

   I know, you can’t hide everything inside you. It’ll pressure you from your inside like,you are locked up in a Pepsi bottle.

True, but it’s still risky too!

   Life, present emotions, secrets, failures like things are bit alright to share with, because, they can use those against you, only for one time. 
  
  But when it comes to your ‘weaknesses’ the other can use it again and again. To be clear they’ll try to play with it.

  ' Because weakness is something you get from your birth and something that can’t fix up.'

   So, that’s why you should keep your weakness to yourself. And mostly our weakness pop up even without our intention or no matter how hard we tried to hide it!

Again it’s true!

   But you should try your best to hide them from the world and from your hearties even, because sometimes those hearties are the people ,who turned on you first ,when the rest of the world comes second!

  One of my heartie who is with me, for the last two decades, use one and only weakness of mine against me, because she was angry and she knew that it was the only thing she can make me hurt with! She is one of my families! Huh, I’m still shocked.

   I just wanted to tell you guys that, no matter how they are elder than you and expert than you or better than you, still they are human. Sometimes, human fail to judge, what’s good and what’s bad, when they are under emotions.

So, will your hearties too ,use your weaknesses against you?

Who the hell know!!So,

‘Better to be careful anyway’

Capture it! Only if it's amazing,but not accident photos!

Accident..!?

Pick up the phone!

Record it! Capture it! Tweet it! Post it!

Yeah!

  Those are the thought your mind order you, with in such situations. Isn’t it?

In a situation which you have never experienced before!

Yeah it’s damn true!

  It may be any kind of situation, something you never experienced before, you tend to capture it! Why? Because you can get more like ‘favorites’, ‘like’ and ‘shares’ to those kind of stuff or for nothing!

  In everywhere, where something happens,something people not often met with, what 21^st century people do is, they try to take a snap shot or to record it without think about the situation going on.

  I think, we all have seen such situations with your eyes or in the TV that, whenever there is an accident take place, there is a large cycle concentrated with people, holding their phones in their hands with Camera- on.

  They have no intention to rescue the victim but to record it. Never try to help the person or to help the other who is in rescuing and aiding process as he can, even if there is a need of other’s contribution to it.

  People who are in this circle sometimes be a disturbance to the rescuing and aiding process too. No drop of thought to help the poor is, in their mind. Just the feeling to catch it. I don’t think that, even they don’t why their doing it and what for!

  But it’s the trend!

  So why you shouldn’t too!

  I think everybody have seen such situation where these kind of ‘Recorders’ are present.

   I too came up with such situation recently. And I was shocked to see how people try to profit or to get advantage from other’s pain and helplessness and the discomfort felt when someone unknown records you. I was shocked to see the way those people kept the humanity in the back seat while keeping publicity in the front.

   That day, the girl who hit with the train was with her boy friend, hanging out in the rail way station here and there, talking and laughing, waiting for the next train. The train came and the next thing I saw is the train stopped and she was on the rail way line, her body being cut into two separate pieces, from her upper body (Train had went over her) her boy friend was screaming and ran to her. But she never scream, instead she hug her lover with her last bit of strength left with her, for the last time in her life.

  Every eye was filled with tears, even in men. Everybody knew there’s nothing they can do, not even the god. And some try to comfort the boy.

  But unfortunately, there was a guy who was with the thought of marketing the sad story and to get more likes and tweets or whatever (or may be having no any idea to what to do with the video). I felt like he is a jerk who couldn’t understand the human feelings behind the scene.Seems to had no idea about ethics. For the record a man near him took his tab and hit it right on his face.

   Many justify such kind of acts with photojournalism. So times you may be one of them. But I like to remind you here, photojournalism is only a marketing trick of media companies, to get more profit, because everyone know that photos are really effective communicating method than words. And more effective ways of communication gives you, more profit.

  One the other hand, it’s not fair enough to justify these kinds of situations using photojournalism as a shield unless, you are working for media as a reporter. Because he is a reporter and it’s what he paid for.

   But you are not paid for capturing such frames, unless you ask from a media company. You have never thought for selling your photos, aren’t you?

So, what the use of, such shots. It’ll be deleted after staying few months in your phone or in your computer.

   To me, it seems like a trend, people try to follow without the knowledge of why you should do it. Only because that’s what your friend has done, when he saw an accident or where someone is in trouble.

   The next common argue with this is life is not something full of flowers, so why it’s not good capturing some shots of pain and bad.They say

"Every picture has a story"

 I don’t think that on one’s life is full of flowers and everybody‘ll know about the thrones too, from their own life at sometime point. Also if you really want to share such bad situation for everyone’s knowledge, pictures are not a must. So after all it’s more like getting profit out of another person’s pain.

   No matter what you say I still like to take photos and what’s the wrong trying to catch up things with ma phone ha?

   No, there is nothing wrong with, recording such situation, so you can show it to your friends too.

    But as intelligent and civilized people, it’s better to get profited from other sources than such cheaper ones. And ,to cultivate a good dose of humanity, at least enough to feel other’s pain.

   Yes, you should capture it, if it is something incredible and amazing.

Why not!

   But think about how they feel to be caught in strangers recording when they are really helpless and in a pain. Think for a second the discomfort they feel with your behavior. Apply the golden rule-

“Love thy neighbor as thyself"

  And see how you feel, if you were choking or injured and I was standing there, would you want me to help you or take your picture?

  Make sure not to let yourself to be such a low, cold blooded, opportunistic person.

   In such an occasion help the victim as you can. It may be one word to comfort him or a one expression you given order to make him stronger. Doesn’t matter! It worth a lot and it will a relief to that person.

   Let your phone stay in your pocket .let your heart to comfort him. And let yourself to help him.

   After all if you still want to take a picture, take it.(you are feel free to do what you want to do)
   But remember to keep ‘help the victim ‘as your first priority. 

Also think about what those photos for and what I’ll do with it afterwards.

'Because, no matter how the society and the world has changed, it still everyone and everything, judge someone with, the dose of humanity he posses.'

P.S feel free to share your opinion too ppz!:):)

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9 serious reasons to not to have a pet!

Pets!

Cute little puppy! Fuzzy Persian kitten!

Sounds great ha?

Yeah!

 It sounds great. Having one of them in your home with and making them one of your best friends is awesome.

  Pets are really cute and cuddly ,at the same time they are really loyal fellows,who consider you as his or her whole world. If you too have pet, I sure that you have felt their loyalty on you.

  Most of the people have pets throughout the world. They pet animal most of the time, because they love animals. But, here are some reasons for you, to not to have pets,though you crazily love animals.

1.Pets are expensive

   No matter how small your pet is, it’s clinical and medical expenses are really high. At the same time you’ll have to feed them with milk or give extra vitamins and minerals which are always really expensive.

2.Time consuming

  Every pet have their personal needs. You’ll have to take them for walks every day no matter how rush you are in. You’ll have to clean them comb them and remove ticks. And why not this! You’ll have to clean your house more often than if you don’t have one because all the fuzz they drop everywhere.

3.Ruin king

   If you have a pet you know what I’m talking about. No animal like to watch moving things .Sometimes it doesn’t want, something to move to target it. I think you may remember the occasions where your loving one ruined your favorite top or a pant.

4.More mess clean

   How many things your pet has broken and have ruined? How many times have you caught it with a massive destruction it have performed on the floor? To me I can’t even remember. I don’t know why they climb up in places where they aren’t fit. So what it’ll remain you are more mess clean up.

5.Visitors here! Scared!

  OMG! Visitor? Tommy‘ll warmly welcome them or? How might my nephew’ll treat Tommy? Will he hurt Tommy? If such thing happened, what if Tommy‘ll reply him with a bit!

6.no good priority

   You may say you understand your pet. You know when it is hungry, when it is want to go out and its danger alarm. But, knowing only these things, make us understand them completely? Aren’t there any days you have hit him with your leg when it comes to you to play with your leg giving your toe a little bite? Aren’t there any days you make it go away, when it tried to cuddle with you?

   Why? Because you don’t have a mood or maybe you are busy with some other work and don’t want to get interrupt.

   Who the hell know that, your pet get hurt its feelings, because, You been selfish all the time and never give a priority to your pet, thought it consider you as its whole world,making you as its first priority.

7.Prison in your home

    No matter how much you love your pet and care for it you still make a prisoner of your home. You make it do eat or drink or pee or poop when you ask it to do. You allow him to go out door only when you need it to?No matter the love it gain but it has no freedom, it deserve which is a basic need any creature needs.

8.Suffering

   Can you wait and see doing nothing, while your pet is suffering? But there are some instances where you can’t do anything and wait till it dies. I have faced such occasion in my life, where I really got hurt. I had a dog that got glaucoma and had a surgery to remove her eyes. I couldn’t do anything till she gets blind, because medical treatments are really limited when it comes to animals. I don’t how much her pain was, since she can’t speak, but I’m really sure that she bared a lot of pain without a ‘err.’

9.Separation

    No matter how much you need your pet and how much love your pet, one day you’ll have to say god bye it forever and let it go. A day that, personally I don’t like at all. That pain! If you are an animal lover you know definitely, how it feels like. After all it seems like just another relationship that put you in pain and goes away.

   No matter the expenses and the time you have to commit for your pet or the mess you have to clean up, because of its work, but what you should more matter about is limitation of it is freedom, inability to give your pet a priority it deserve and the unnecessary pain you face after all.

   I’m a person who loves animals than humans, since many people never care for animals in the level they care for people. And I’ve had many pets in my life. But I faced with a really hurt full situation where my doggy get ill and got blind and I had to wait doing nothing till she die, because there were nothing  left to for the vets. That day on wards I thought not to have pet. Never ever!

  I hope this blog will help you to get away from such a pain or to ready your mind if such thing happens (I wish no one or no pet should come up with such an unfortunate)

What really 'I love you' means today?

  

  
   It’s a feeling that inspires people. It’s a feeling that gives people a hope. It’s a feeling that makes people smile without any reason. 
    
  It’s a feeling that makes you sing often and make you dance in the shower ,spend more time in front of the mirror no matter how bad is the day. And it’s the feeling of love.

  Everyone knows that love is something not only limited to man and woman relationship. But in this blog I like to draw your attention only on such relationships.

  Though, I expressed my personal opinion on love, in one of my previous blogs,Love is something rude and uncivilized!Agree?, referring it as a feeling full of rudeness.

I know it perhaps made your mad at me.

LOLz

 Anyway, I thought to write again something about LOVE, because everyone needs it including me.

   Love is a term that, you can give lot of definitions. Because the world say it’s something cannot be define, some say you can’t figure out what it is exactly, while some say love is not something you should bother to define but to felt with your heart. Those are the things I've heard in the society.

   But ‘I love you’ only has one definition. Nothing complex, it only means that ‘someone loves someone’.

   Isn’t it ppz?

   It’s one of the expressions, which people use most often throughout the world.

   But, I really doubt this. Are those words really means, what it exactly means, in every time someone say so? Among the times people say’s love you ‘, how many time people reallymean what they say?

   

  Today ‘I love you ‘has become something really cheap. It have become something simple like you greet a stranger with a ‘hi’. In the present, it have only become, just another three words, to most of the people which, they use often to keep a person with them ,only because of  their preference to that person, or have a particular person only because of the physical attraction or a physical advantage. This behavior can be seen not only among teenagers but among the adults too.

   Can you guess how many get divorce  per day?

   How many get break up in a day?

   You may don’t know the answers for the above.

   But just think and see how many times you have made those three words cheap, for your own for your profit?

Mean while, I must mention that, there people who really mean what they say.

'There is one divorce approximately 2,400 divorces per day only in America.'

And,it's you to find out the rest.

   Some can say that you don’t have to be together if you don’t match each other.

Yes! It’s true.

   But my point, knowing that you have the opinion of breaking up if he or she doesn’t match with you and your ideas, why you are in such a hurry letting you hug the pain?

   So, mean it when you say ‘I love you ‘to someone! Mean it really when you use those words! And use them carefully to the right person! Give those words the real value of love deserves. 

  And,I must mention, there people who really mean what they say.

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