Have you ever beaten down by the dark?

   

   Another day in another period in my life. A cold gloomy night. Wind rustles the leaves around. I hear a cricket make a regular crick and an owl seems so near too. It seems that we three are the only ones who still awake. Everywhere is filled with silence. Thick darkness can b e cut in to pieces. Everywhere is soaked in the black.

   But my table lamp is disturbing the darkness with its light. It try to push the darkness away. But I feel like the darkness never gives a chance for the light to keep it away. I’m really sure about what I’m telling, because I can see, though there is a good light around me it have fade away when it reach the corners of my room.

   Light of my table lamp is really less when compared it with the darkness which have spread all over the world right now. But No matter how weak is the light, it never let the darkness come near me and ruined my work. Darkness may be huge and powerful. But light never give up fighting until the bulb is dead. It is there to fight for me and to protect me from dark, from the evil dark. What a relief!

   My hair is falling on my shoulder and now it has fall on my face disturbing my vision. I feel like it’s time to tie my hair up. But if I tied it up I’ll feel colder on my neck. 

  So I stop typing for some time and look through the window. I see the glittering stars up in the sky. But the complete square shaped view is damaged by some trees in my garden. It makes me miss few stars. Whatever I miss right now I still see many glowing stars which are more similar to hanging bulbs.I know count those are not going to work. 

 How many of them are there? Who knows! I’m sure the whole sky should be full of stars out there.

   All the stars are really really far from me, from us, from the whole world. Even from themselves. But their light is enough to make us see them. Stars, light the dark night with their own light. 

  Not like the moon who begs the sun for light. Stars are strong enough to light the world with their own. No matter how far they are to me and they are apart from each other, they spread their light trough out the world making anyone can see them from anywhere in the world. No matter how alone they are, they never let their light to get diminish.


   
I feel like I need more light around me, I need more light around my world. To defeat the darkness. To push the darkness away from me and from the world. I can’t ask the stars to give me bit more light since they are so far. 

  But I still can watch them. I still can feel them. I still can see their struggle of pushing the dark away form here. I still can watch them glowing which reminds me that, No matter how much small is the light you have inside you, trying to occupy a space with it, making the darkness lose some of its space is so worthy than doing nothing. 

  Because if there aren’t stars above me and the light in my room everything‘ll be completely under the control of the darkness.


   So try to be a light to yourself and to the world. It may be damn hard and may keep you under pressure. But never let yourself go dark. Try to push it away from you, from your soul and from your world as much as you can. 

  Never let yourself to drown in the dark. It may be from your words or from your actions or from your behaviors, always try to stick with the light. 

  Just do it following the light. It may be small, It may be really small but it counts! When the sea loose one of his water droplet, No matter how much it still have, still it lacking that one drop. No matter how much the dark is strong, Fight it as you can. 

 Never let it change you.

    Silence rules everywhere accept the sound of pressing keys. It seems my two pals have gone to sleep. Now It’s my turn!

23 Low budget fun activities for summer and for often!

    Wake up, eat, go to work or to school or college, come home, eat, go to bed, wake up…..

   That’s the cycle of life. Every day, the same places same people, somethings .No different at all. So how cannot someone say my life is boring! Boring is a feeling comes with your life is repetitive. When yesterday, today, and tomorrow is the same you feel that you are stuck in rut. To be honest at the moment I too have stucked there! So it seems my mind doesn’t work anymore in order to complete this blog.

    Every day is a challenge. No one no what’ll happen in the next moment. Each and every day is new and strange. No day is the same. Every day you and I experience something new. Something bitter or something better. Isn’t it ppz?

In a world where have water for sale it’s too hard for most of the people to jump out from your regular track and enjoy yourself often since it cost a bit. Because  in the present everything is very costy. Travelling ,food, stays and everything is expensive  and it’s bit hard for anyone to go out to spend vacations. On the other hand you don’t have much leaves in your carrier. So it’s hard to get rid of the broadness and the tiredness all of us feeling because of our daily routine.

So you and I have to find ways to jump out from your daily track and get relaxed.

So I’d thought to share my ideas for low budget activities to do .i think they may help in your ideas.

If you are planning to get rid of your repetitive life completely for this weekend, here’s are my advice and ideas for you.

• ·         Turn of your mobile.
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• ·         Make sure your safety
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• ·         Choose cheap costing services and place when traveling It may be feel bit rough           but after all you ‘ll feel great with the experience.
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• ·         Try to pack some food from your kitchen so the food cost‘ll be less.
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• ·         Try to share your cost with friends in every time you can so everybody can enjoy           and save money at the same time.
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• ·         Avoid expensive items.

1.Go mount climbing.

  If you live near by a mountain this is for you. Arrange a hike and ask some for your friends to join. Climbing a mountain is so much fun since there is no exact path or a trail. Go wild Walk in the dirt and get yourself dirt. Hang out there for the whole day and enjoy.

2.Visit nature.

   Nature is always free. Visit a calm place near your home. It may be a small pond or a creek or a small wood or a small stream of water. Play with dirt water feed the fish. Enjoy your time while cold water touching your legs. Take something to read so you can spend more time without getting bored and never forget to let the fish to kiss your legs.

3.Walk in the road till mid night.

   Hang out on the road all alone or with your friends until the clock tick twelve. Street lights, vehicles passing by, street food, pleasant weather in the night’ll drive you crazy! You’ll catch many things you never seen in your city. You’ll understand how beautiful your city becomes with the dark.

4.Visit your favorite relation.

  Spend a bit and visit one of your relations. It’ll be please you and you’re to spend time with your relation telling all the old stories and laughing.

5.Visit your old friend.

   I  f you don’t have much time to keep contacts with your old friends this is the best option. Visit your friend and hangout whole day in his or her place. You two’ll have lot of things to talk about and to laugh about.

6.Have a movie night.

   Collect some good movies and invite some of your friends to join it. Prepare some snakes and enjoy the whole night having a last.

7.One dish Party in your back yard.

  
    Arrange a party asking each of your friend including you to prepare one dish for the party. Get some drink and enjoy. It’ll be low costy and so much fun. Find some board games and fun games to play.

8.Bike ride.

   Take your bike out and wander around or go to visit a special place near your area. Watch the way back and forth and feel the wind and enjoy.

9.Help a neighbor.

   Helping someone is also a way someone can really enjoy doing in order to get rid of bored.It may be anything just help.It’ll give the satisfraction of giving a favour and a more closer and sincere neighbor.

10.Join a parade.

    
       Parades are free and so much fun.Get along with some friends and join a parade.

11.Catch tadpoles

  
   Go to the local park and catch tadpoles, using whatever you have. An old pool net is  the best. Catching tadpoles is not that easy and takes some timing and patience. take the tad poles home and raise them in a bucket until they are frogs. After release them in a neighbor’s pond.;)

12.Create a scavenger hunt in the city park

  This is also something you can do with your friends. Make a list of things and go to the city park or anywhere you find free to enjoy and hunt! Hunt! Hunt!.

13.Check out the county fair

   Fairs give you a taste of real agriculture, youth and adult competitions, and usually a carnival full of rides, games and food. Attend to your county and state fairs, and eat ,drink, buy, compete enjoy the things there!

14.Be a part in the concert of a local artist or a band

  
  These are often free and occasionally the bands you’re seeing actually have some talent. If not, don’t worry – you can always have a great time being a critic and enjoying the cheap beverages. They are never anywhere classy or expensive.

15.Read an entertaining book.

    Look around your house for a fun book to read, perhaps something loaned to you by a friend or something you received as a gift, and curl up and let yourself be sucked into the story.

16.Build a giant blanket fort.

 

  If you have kids, there are few things more fun than an afternoon spent building and playing in a gigantic fort in the living room. Use chairs, blankets, and tables to make an enormous hidden structure, then hide in there and play games and read books.

If they’re a bit older, build two forts (on opposite sides of the room) and have “fort wars” – toss small beanbags and pillows back and forth. No cost, but an afternoon that’s a ton of fun.

17.Turn on the water sprinkler.

 

  This is another great way to have family fun with kids. Just run out a hose in the backyard, attach a sprinkler to the end, and turn it on, shooting the water up into the air. Darting back and forth through the cold water on a hot day is a ton of fun for kids — and for parents, too.

18.go swimming.

 

   Almost every town has a community swimming pool, public pond, or some sort of area where residents can swim – lacking that, go to a state park with a public swimming area. Swimming is wonderfully invigorating and often makes me feel very peaceful – best of all, it’s something you can often do for free.

19.Go on a wandering walk.

 

   Step out your front door and go in whichever direction looks the most interesting. As long as you have some basic navigational skills, you won’t get lost, and you can turn around or backtrack whenever you get bored or hit a dead end.

20.Hold a baby or a small kid.

    Baby sitting is also a great way to get rid of boredness and also to have fun. Babies and kids are really charming and make you fall in to their level by every mean no matter how old are you. If you gonna spend time with a small one you have to think and work like one. Trust me at the end of the day you’ll feel the relive you’ve got.

21.Work for a political campaign. 

Really interested in politics? There are a lot of ways you can work for a campaign from your own home whenever you have the spare time (like during a money-free weekend).

One great way is to get involved with a phone bank. Basically, you call up people to provide information about your candidate of choice. You can do this using the free weekend minutes on your cell phone or by using software provided by the campaign. Other volunteers are often needed to go door to door handing out flyers or collecting signatures. Just contact the campaign you support, and ask how you can help out.

22.Play Frisbee at the park.

 

  Get a friend (or a pet) and dig out that old Frisbee from your closet, then head out to an open field and toss it around. It’s a lot of fun, a great excuse to run around and stretch and jump, and it doesn’t cost a dim.

23.Donate some unwanted things to charity.

 

  If you’ve sorted through your stuff to clear out the clutter, but don’t want to have a yard sale, consider giving the stuff you don’t want to charity. Not only will you have a cleaner house, you’ll have the good feeling of knowing your items are going to be used by someone who actually needs them. 

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Love is something rude and uncivilized!Agree?

 Love, which is the most important thing for the life. Everyone needs it and everyone deserves it. 

But what is love?

 Love is a great feeling among all the living creatures for living your life. It’s the thing gives you some kind of a value to yourself. It’s the thing which makes worthy among other people. It’s the thing which reminds you to keep moving in your life. It’s the thing which make you interesting, in living your life. 

 Someone’s love gives you courage to chase your dreams fast. Simply love is the thing which make your life living. I feel like Love is the tap roots of life .No love, no living life!

   I think Love is something works in both directions among two parties. You love someone you receive that person’s love. It’s something work in the theory of 'give and gain’. It’s something you should commit a lot to. 

 Caring, sharing, Kindness, affection, protection and many other feeling are there in love. I think Love is a mixture of all the above feelings. More is the above feelings more is the love.

   As I have heard love is something you should share at least with someone. Many say it’s a priceless feeling. Some say it’s a secret feeling. Others say it’s something you can’t get rid of because love is the thing which make your life let living, 

 Without the knowledge of human it have become something really strong thing which is capable of keeping humans together.

   Since us, the humans are so weak creatures from their birth they’ve chose to live in group for their life time. So that’s why now you and me everybody has some humans around you who are really close. It may be your family. It may be you r friends or relations or spouse. You have someone who you love and who loves you. As a child, as a teen, as a one, as an elder everybody need love.

   
But my definition for love is different from the others. To me love is only like something which comes with selfishness and the feeling of owning. To me it does not seem like a priceless feeling. 

  I feel like love is something human have used as a shield to hide their weakness .I feel like someone loves another only because of his own benefit if not only with the feeling of owning that person.

 But how still that love is something which comes with selfishness and owning?

 Let me explain!

   As I’ve told you before human are weak creatures than other animals. They are the weakest in their birth comparing with other animals and the weakness continues till their death. So the humans need someone to take care of. To stand side by side through their life time. 

  Human always need   help and always seek for help. That’s why early man lives in groups so that those groups turned to civilizations and then to the social state now we are experiencing. 

  So, human try to keep others company around him expecting help whenever they need it. Without humans knowledge that effort of keeping people around them turned out to something incredible according to some poets. It’s the love. That’s how the love came to this world.

   Just think and see. For what you need your parents in your childhood? For what you need your husband and your relations and your friends? You need your parents for your own protection and for your survival. Spouse, friends and relations are the same. You love them only for your own benefit. You keep them around you, to ask for help in case of emergency.

   It’s about selfishness within love. Let me tell you about the contribution of feeling of owning to love. Let me take a mother as an example. Every mother loves her children very much.

  But is there any mother who loves every mother’s children as same in the way as she loves her child? Is there any mother who loves to the child who is in the same age as her child in the next door? No. 

 She only loves her child. She may care for the next door child, kind for him. But her love to him is very small. Both two children are the same in age and spices (human). So what’s the difference? 
Think a minute.

   In my point of view, Love is something really rude and uncivilized feeling. You love someone only for your benefit. Even when you do something for him or her with or without your knowledge, you do it to show your love, you do it because you know that if you are not doing it’s not good for your relationship.

 Or on the other hand you do something for the other praying his successes his well being. But it only for the ones who are you own. Only for your parents, your boy friend, your friend, your husband, your child but never for outsiders.

   How cunning the love is? 

 Love is the bond which bound human each other. It’s invisible but it’s really strong. It’s the thing your family bound from. Your relationship your marriage is the same. Love is what make you bind with other creatures of your kind. It seems to be some kind of a trick anyone who have created the world is done to resolve the problem of continuing the thing he have created. 

  After all, it is the biggest trick of the world to keep up the life cycle of creatures. You mother love you father and that’s why you came to this world. And one day you’ll love another adding a generation of creatures to the world.I feels like love has made us salve of the world. Without everyone’s knowledge world use your love to serve him.

   To me it’s a feeling which is very rich with selfishness. i feel like it’s something really rude and uncivilized after all. But the bitter truth is no one can escape from it. You, me and everybody have this bad feeling since we all are humans who still belong to this world without a good spiritual development enough to get rid of that bad. 

 So how can anybody define love as something precious? How could any feeling comes with selfishness be good? Isn’t love means cheating the others for your own benefit or to keep your belong ones with good well being? 

Have you ever have failed even after putting your best effort?

                                                                                                                                                                    

Life! Something contains all good and bad, up and downs. I think no one ever had a life with no bad and downs. Everyone has faced at least one failure in their life. So, bads and down falls and failures are common to every human. Everyone knows how bad the bad is and how much it can hurt you. But no one can escape from it. It something you should feel and face in your life.

Some say that ‘TRYING’ and hard working can change your life to the side of good. That’s what I’ve hard. Common thought among the people especially amoung elders is that if you try and do your best you can win everything. If you fail something it’s only because that you haven’t had tried your best. That’s what your elders say when you faced a failure without considering the pain you are going through. It may be education, life or love. Comment is the same!

I too believe in that theory for many years. While I on everything I believed it. Because nothing best never come easily in your life. You have to earn it. I’ve won really nice things; I was dying to have with lot of hard working and effort. So I believed the same. And my parents believe it too. To be clear they advised me to believe in it.

But I don’t think that trying and hard working can’t lead you to victory in each and every time in your life no matter how hard you tried. Sometimes life decides to fail by its own. No matter the effort we put on sometimes it’s really hard to win everything in you life. Theta’s the nature of life. To be more specific the evil form of life. 

  Sometimes that evil form shows you how bad is everything and how poor are you. It shows you how helpless are you. It makes you feel that you can’t proceed any more. Because you have spend your everything for that victory. But you have failed. You have nothing left with you. No more courage. No more energy. No more hope.

I faced this kind of situation in last year. It was really hurting and painful. Back then I thought how it could be? I should have won? How could I fail? I’ve tried my best know! But in that case I failed. I felt I’m empty. I didn’t have any courage to continue in my life. To be honest I was afraid. Because I've tried my best there I did lot of hard work. I believed that I could make it.

 But at last I failed. 

So how could I be not afraid of? 
I’m not sure about myself anymore!

   Time went on and on. With the time I realize that evil form of life is not that bad. I learn that Life has a plan for you. All the victories as well as all the failures even. Everything is part of it.Everything has planed. You just have to go in the way it shows you. 

That’s the truth. 

  Some say that you can change anything if you tried. Yes you can change a little but still your life‘ll lead you in the way it has planed. You can’t change it. You have to accept it.

There was a time that I believed that you can do anything if you have your will and your courage. But now I don’t believe it. Now my belief is different. I think that life give you the best thing. It may be a failure or victory. It may be pain or joy. I think it’s the way life armed us with experience to face for the great future. It’s the way life show us how hard is to be the survival of the fittest. It’s the way life prepares us, strengthen us for the survival. On the other hand, when you failed after done your best your pain is less than a failure you’ll experience without putting much effort. No matter how much is the pain you have in your r heart there’ll be a bit of satisfaction with the thought of hard working.                                        

You may blame for your life when you lose something or when you can’t reach what you are dying to have like I did. “What a f%*king life?”But I think you shouldn’t .Those failures give you the courage to face you life with more confident and faith. If you are going through such a mess right now you won’t agree with me. But with time you‘ll realize what you have learn from your failures. You’ll realize how strong you’ve become after it. So don’t hurry to judge your life. Just let the time to make you realize everything. With time you’ll understand what the good that bad have given you is.

Have you ever being criticizes so badly without any reason?

  

 You are just one in this collection of person called the world. You are just one among millions and millions. Everyone is different. Everyone is unique. No matter someone try to imitate another he or she can’t escape from his or her uniqueness. 

 From the blue sky to the deep oceans through the green land there are no similar two things. No two clouds are the same. No two oak trees are the same. So how could there be two same people even when the identical twins also have differences in many things?

  Everything is different and that difference make the world more beautiful. What happen if all the trees get the same look in a sudden? What if all the birds get the same colour and the sound? How it is like to have same looking people in the world? 

 No doubt, you’ll get bored soon. What is you see yourself going to work in the morning when you open your door? You’ll be fed up seeing the same thing again and again.

  
Not only from the outside even from the inside, has anyone who creates people made changes between each and everyone. Though it might be very mind teasing activity he has manage to do it very well for the sake of our own. 

 It may feel annoying when someone disagrees with you or when someone doesn’t like you. You may feel that how better if he or she felt the same way you feel. You may think that ,why that person doesn’t like you ,even when you’ve done nothing wrong. Sometimes you may feel that it’s really annoying to be with that person.

  You, me and each and every person in this world have people who they don’t like, who they don’t agree with, who make you feel so awkward when spending time with them. There are people who don’t like you and there are people who you don’t like. But that same person may be your best friends favorite which make you hard to believe.

  But that’s the diversity. Each and everyone have their own preference which is not same to anyone in this world but there may be matching situations. There are people who have matching interests, matching feelings, and matching qualities. But that ‘matching’ never makes two people similar. That’s the truth which you can’t ever change. 

 Everyone is different. No one is similar.

But many people work and think to make everyone has to be same. They are the one who criticize you. They are the ones who always talk bad about you. They are the ones who are trying to make you feel down. They are the ones who hurt your feelings even when you haven’t done anything wrong to them. Have ever met such people in you life? I have met such ones even today’s morning.

  Those people who can’t realize the nature or the flow of the world‘ll keep doing all the bad things I mentioned earlier which might hurt your feeling. Their words may make you think that, what I have done to him or her to talk about me like this? Why they talk about me like I’m a bad person? 
 Answer is simple. 

  They just want to see everyone do and think just as he or she thinks. Those people don’t know how to judge the right and the wrong correctly because they think that he or she is the right one and you are the wrong. Whenever you think beyond such person’s vision he or she sees you as a shameless bitch.

  I have met with such occasions. I’m sure you too have met such ones. It’s may feel you bad and worry and bother you. It my hurt your feelings even. But I think you don’t have to. They are the people who are poor in their hearts and intelligence. They talk about you so badly because they just can’t understand the diversity of the world. They are the people who can’t tolerate other’s views and actions. 

  They are the people who think that their monopoly should be in everywhere. Those people over estimate their selves’ in good. Those people are so narrow minded and lack of logic. They only see what they see and they only hear what they hear. They never try to think about what they’ve seen or heard.

 

So never sorry for yourself whenever you met with such a situation and never let yourself to drop to those people’s level. Because everyone is different and there are ones who can’t tolerate it. It’s not your fault. 

  Don’t bother or worry or sorry or get hurt yourself from being criticize or whenever anyone talk about you keeping you in a lower position. They are the ones you have to feel sorry for. They are the ones you have to worry and bother about. Because they are travelling in this journey of life closing their eyes which‘ll make you miss all the good things.  

  So be sorry for them and never get hurt because of others words. And make sure you are not on this group of people. Love you uniqueness. Respect to the diversity of the world. Because that diversity make you special in this world. At the same time keep in your mind.

"Never waits for other’s opinion if you know you are doing the right thing”

70 questions to ask when you are bored!

1.       Who is the person you want to be with at your last breath?

2.       What is the place you wish to have your wedding?

3.       How many people you have loved to, without their                           knowledge?

4.       What can make a person ugly at an instance?

5.       What is the funniest word you have ever heard?

6.       If an angle gives you the chance to make someone dead, who           would you choose?

7.       What is the most wanted thing you want to change in the                 society?

8.       Express the best way to survive in the high school in three

          words

9.       What is the best piece of advice you have ever received from           a stranger?

10.     How many jobs do you have dreamed of, from your                         childhood up to now? And what are they?

11.   What is the most embracing moment in your life, which make          you still laugh at yourself?

12.   Who is the actor/actress making you angry?

13.   If you could get a new talent at once, what would it be?

14.   What is the dream you still clearly remember and will                        remember forever?

15.   What is the simplest thing that can make you happy?

16.   Who is the person make you laugh to the death?

17.   What is the most recent situation which made you feel sorry             for another?

18.   Express “life “in a sentence.

19.   Who is the last person you count on?

20.   Where you want to born in your next life?

21.   How many times have you gone out without brushing your               teeth accidentally?

22.   How much times you have forget to flush it?

23.   What is the most exiting jobs to you?

24.   According to your opinion what is the most meaningful way to         celebrate you b’day ?

25.   What is the best blog or article you have read while you                    searching for something else?

26.   Name two words which make you inspire?

27.   Who is the most cunning person you have ever met?

28.   What is inside yourself which made you think that “I have               some value in me’?

29.   What is the talent you have discovered in you accidentally?

30.   What is the most important lesson your love life has taught                you?

31.   If you own the twitter what are the changes you gonna make             in it?

32.   What is the thing you have accomplished in your life only                because of your dedication and hard work?

33.   Who is the person made you think about yourself in a different          way?

34.   How did you find your life quote?(your motto)

35.   What made you feel proud about yourself?

36.   What are the qualities someone should have to get your                      respect?

37.   What is the last time you saved someone’s life?

38.   What is the quality you want to get rid of?

39.   If you are asked to kill someone or die, what would you do?

40.   What is the party or the group you want to be a part of?

41.   What is the best surprise you have come across?

42.   If you could go to the hell for a visit of a day, what would you         back?

43.   How can someone make you angry easily?

44.   What was the reason which makes you wake up all the night?

45.   What are the things which make you happy to have this live?

46.   What is the best lesson you have learned in the hard way?

47.   Who is the person you are really grateful for his or her help?

48.   What was the day you feel your strength the most?

49.   On what, you think that, you have made the best interment?

50.   What make you laugh at yourself recently?

51.   What are the fashion trends you followed madly?

52.   What can make some one furious?

53.   What can make someone look completely different with?

54.   What is the thing you added to your life from looking at                    someone?

55.   Whose words make you more concern about something?

56.   What if the book which made an impact in your life?

57.   What is the best way to defeat someone?

58.   Where is the place you spent your best evening ever?

59.   What is the most remarkable situation you came up with your            mum and dad, which gave you the idea of “what a bad                      teenager were they’?

60.   What is the most important thing your parents haven’t had in            their childhood but you had?(As you think)

61.   Who is the celebrity you really hate but still see some good in         him or her that should be appreciated?

62.   What is the food you like to have for the rest of your life in               each and every meal?

63.   What made you love your sibling recently?

64.   What have made you impressed about life recently?

65.   What is the most matching thing between your best friend and          you?

66.   Who is the teacher you have treated in the worst way and                  why?

67.   What is the best punishment you ever had and what have you            learn from it?

68.   If you could prank the police what will be your prank?

69.   What is the best thing ever happen to you?

70.   What make you keep going in you life in every time you feel            down?