Life is not always a sweet dream. Nightmares, pleasant, disgust, sad scenarios and many other different experiences are there. These scenarios are there thanks to many different people who you interacting in each and every day. Each and every day you came up with new faces, throughout your day, who add a new experience to your life.
It may be on the way, or may be at work you’ll see differences in every new one you come up and the way you read that difference always armed you with new experience.
Difference is something comes because of the comparison. Every comparison needs a parameter. In this case that parameter is you. So you’ll see everyone who has different qualities, behaviours, beliefs, habit than you as different.
But as a creature who likes to live in groups you can’t keep anyone aside, because of they are e different from you. You’ll definitely have to work together with people no matter how different they are. I think everyone have that experience at least once in their life time. Working together is where all of you have to contribute and where you have to listen to all.
So working with such people different I mean)sometimes makes you fed of your whole life even. Sometimes how much you get adjust to fit them it seem that it never do any good. You may feel so tired explaining thing and discussing the same thing again and again, to take the conversion to a point where everyone agreed.
Sometimes you feel like its better if you can leave that place for a while until he or she reach the best way, after going round and round on unnecessary arguments while you suggest you hour ago. HE-HE! Who knows there may be people who felt the same way with me ;)( I’m sure, there must be!)
His or her personal beliefs, social background, religion, personal qualities, intelligence and many other factors can affect this. I feel like most people make working together hard to the others because they have lack of the quality to work in a group and the lack of logical thinking.
Most of those people who make the other feel really tired and fed working with them don’t know that listen and accept the others suggestions isn’t something to be shame of or isn’t something make you feel less worthy.
They always think that they are the people who know better every time. They don’t accept some ideas, his or her colleges have suggested as the best option until it come with his own after analyzing lot of unnecessary things.
Huh!
So what you have to do until he or she come up with same idea you’ve suggested is, you have to waste lot of word and effort explaining the things. Or you have to sit and listen till the other college explaining to that different one. Or you just have to listen to all the rubbish and let them work their way, knowing that there is better options and judgments.
I thought, I ‘m a person who can work with anyone. But today I realize that I’m not capable of it. Because I found a lady who make me fed working with her. I don’t know how to explained what I‘ve experienced. But she seems so weird.
I felt like she made me surprise about the world, with a behavior. I was surprised too see that much arrogant, near to blast with pride ones exist in this world. I was really fed up and I understood that I can work her because you can’t figure out how to!
Workings with people who are different from you need lot of patience. You have to bear others doing nonsense, sometimes you have to accept them. You have to hide your anger and behave in a good manner in such cases at the same time you have to pretend that something you feel like stupid, as a great thing. Not only that if your can understand his or situation and mind state a bit you can work with them much easily.
Working with people who don’t listen to anyone and doesn’t have a logical judgment is really unpleasant. But you must work together to achieve in you r life, your carrier, your education.
It’s a must.
Because together you can do more and better in a group than doing it individually. But sometimes it makes you so fed up and agree. So patience is that key for it. Use it and let the things go don’t hold any of them. It works with me most of such situations so sometimes it’ll work with you too.
So if you are suffering from “working together’ be patience more than you being in usual and let everything go passed by like you move pics in your gallery with a touch.
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