Love is something rude and uncivilized!Agree?

 Love, which is the most important thing for the life. Everyone needs it and everyone deserves it. 

But what is love?

 Love is a great feeling among all the living creatures for living your life. It’s the thing gives you some kind of a value to yourself. It’s the thing which makes worthy among other people. It’s the thing which reminds you to keep moving in your life. It’s the thing which make you interesting, in living your life. 

 Someone’s love gives you courage to chase your dreams fast. Simply love is the thing which make your life living. I feel like Love is the tap roots of life .No love, no living life!

   I think Love is something works in both directions among two parties. You love someone you receive that person’s love. It’s something work in the theory of 'give and gain’. It’s something you should commit a lot to. 

 Caring, sharing, Kindness, affection, protection and many other feeling are there in love. I think Love is a mixture of all the above feelings. More is the above feelings more is the love.

   As I have heard love is something you should share at least with someone. Many say it’s a priceless feeling. Some say it’s a secret feeling. Others say it’s something you can’t get rid of because love is the thing which make your life let living, 

 Without the knowledge of human it have become something really strong thing which is capable of keeping humans together.

   Since us, the humans are so weak creatures from their birth they’ve chose to live in group for their life time. So that’s why now you and me everybody has some humans around you who are really close. It may be your family. It may be you r friends or relations or spouse. You have someone who you love and who loves you. As a child, as a teen, as a one, as an elder everybody need love.

   
But my definition for love is different from the others. To me love is only like something which comes with selfishness and the feeling of owning. To me it does not seem like a priceless feeling. 

  I feel like love is something human have used as a shield to hide their weakness .I feel like someone loves another only because of his own benefit if not only with the feeling of owning that person.

 But how still that love is something which comes with selfishness and owning?

 Let me explain!

   As I’ve told you before human are weak creatures than other animals. They are the weakest in their birth comparing with other animals and the weakness continues till their death. So the humans need someone to take care of. To stand side by side through their life time. 

  Human always need   help and always seek for help. That’s why early man lives in groups so that those groups turned to civilizations and then to the social state now we are experiencing. 

  So, human try to keep others company around him expecting help whenever they need it. Without humans knowledge that effort of keeping people around them turned out to something incredible according to some poets. It’s the love. That’s how the love came to this world.

   Just think and see. For what you need your parents in your childhood? For what you need your husband and your relations and your friends? You need your parents for your own protection and for your survival. Spouse, friends and relations are the same. You love them only for your own benefit. You keep them around you, to ask for help in case of emergency.

   It’s about selfishness within love. Let me tell you about the contribution of feeling of owning to love. Let me take a mother as an example. Every mother loves her children very much.

  But is there any mother who loves every mother’s children as same in the way as she loves her child? Is there any mother who loves to the child who is in the same age as her child in the next door? No. 

 She only loves her child. She may care for the next door child, kind for him. But her love to him is very small. Both two children are the same in age and spices (human). So what’s the difference? 
Think a minute.

   In my point of view, Love is something really rude and uncivilized feeling. You love someone only for your benefit. Even when you do something for him or her with or without your knowledge, you do it to show your love, you do it because you know that if you are not doing it’s not good for your relationship.

 Or on the other hand you do something for the other praying his successes his well being. But it only for the ones who are you own. Only for your parents, your boy friend, your friend, your husband, your child but never for outsiders.

   How cunning the love is? 

 Love is the bond which bound human each other. It’s invisible but it’s really strong. It’s the thing your family bound from. Your relationship your marriage is the same. Love is what make you bind with other creatures of your kind. It seems to be some kind of a trick anyone who have created the world is done to resolve the problem of continuing the thing he have created. 

  After all, it is the biggest trick of the world to keep up the life cycle of creatures. You mother love you father and that’s why you came to this world. And one day you’ll love another adding a generation of creatures to the world.I feels like love has made us salve of the world. Without everyone’s knowledge world use your love to serve him.

   To me it’s a feeling which is very rich with selfishness. i feel like it’s something really rude and uncivilized after all. But the bitter truth is no one can escape from it. You, me and everybody have this bad feeling since we all are humans who still belong to this world without a good spiritual development enough to get rid of that bad. 

 So how can anybody define love as something precious? How could any feeling comes with selfishness be good? Isn’t love means cheating the others for your own benefit or to keep your belong ones with good well being?