Why men don’t remember special dates in their relationship?

     Do you remember the date you met your lover for the first time? Do you remember her birthday?

    Have your wife or your girl friend has ever ask you “what’s the date today?” or “do you remember what’s special today?” for several times. 

   Has your husband or your boy friend ever forget your anniversary or the day you two met for the first time?

“Men don’t remember special dates in their relationship”

Is that true?

  Well yes it’s damn true! If you ask this question from some random women most of their answer will be yes. But why they forget those special days in their lives?

  When your GF or wife ask you what day is today ,in the morning what if your answer just get limited to the date of the particular day? No doubt that she’ll look terrible and angry. She get so disappointed and proceed the rest of the day in a very bad mood which make you feel bad too.

  Usually women remember every small incident in their relationship with each and every detail like special dates, places for centuries while men don’t have that ability. To be more specific it’s not their inability, they don’t give those events an importance as women do. But women expect men to remember all these, dates specially. Because it’s a point she uses to measure your love and caring. But men don’t take those dates as that serious. 

  If you enable to give the answer she expect from your for her question she thinks that you don’t love her as much as you did in the past and you don’t care for her anymore. She thinks she don’t receive the love she used to receive in the beginning of her relationship. Woman doesn’t do it intentionally, but she feels like you don’t devote as much as she do in your relationship and you don’t want to do so either. Because it’s not a big deal to remember a special date. Men too see this memorizing special dates as a “it’s not a big deal”thing.

 But since they still care for their girls and want them to be  happy and don’t like to see them in a bad mood because of them, modern husbands and boyfriends have come across with a solution to overcome this “special date “thing.

  They use modern technology for this. What they do is, they keep a memo in their mobile phone to alarm early in the morning in a special day or may be in 12:59 in the mid night in the previous day. And now you greet her on the special thing and she terrify with happy because you could remember it. Now  you also feel better because you didn’t make her feel bad on the day.

 But is that right? Isn’t this a cheat?

  Though you've wish her, you wasn’t the one who remember it, it’s the electronic who told you about it. Now the thing is lot worst because fist it was your loving woman who make you remember it but now it’s a feeling less electronic who never felt love. 

  Most important thing to think is, that feeling less emotionless electronic which has never felt love could remember a date of a very special day in your relationship but you who love and can feel all these emotions can’t. She is the person who you share your life with or may be willing to. She may be the person who made your life better and happy. She may be the one who stand side by side in every matter in your life. She may be the one who guide you in the dark times in your life. 

  So how could anyone give the responsibility of remembering the date in which this precious lady has come to your life or the day she was born to this world to such an electronic devise? Is the care and honor you give her in this case is enough for her? Is it enough for her after all the things she has done for you and your happiness? Is it fair enough her to receive warm greet with a great cheat from you?

  I think NO.

She deserves better care from her man.

  As she is the one who you have selected to love for the rest of your life, you should allocate some space to remember the thing she love you to. Because if you really love her you don’t want her to be sad. It’s not costy at all you don’t have to spend in anything in this. 

 As the man she loves you should give proper respect to her and honor her. Suggest you to keep in your mind those days on your own without giving this responsibility to an electronic devise. You should do it because she expect it from you so much and it’s a measuring point, which  ladies used to measure your love.

   And for the ladies, who read this, keep in mind that the relationship and love is not based on the things you remember and he doesn’t. So don’t test him. Don’t wait fir him. You be the first and greet him and make him remember. Celebrate the day in your best and enjoy the sweet memories with your lover.

  Because it‘s not worth it to get spoiled with your own in such a memorable day. Understand him and be happy in such a special day in your life without wiping both your happiness.